Creativewriting:Some ways to raise up a successful child by @ogwo

in Steem Kids & Parents2 years ago

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Hello friends and welcome to my blog. I would like to share with you the many ways to raise a successful child.
We all, as parents, really want our children to be well raised and successful. and as such, we need to expose them to some specific things to make our dream come to pass.
Success in its purest form really means a lot of things,but it can mostly be achieved by realising our success and also getting positive results. It is therefore said that a positive or successful person depends on many factors, and I would like to share some of those ways with you guys. I hope you will find it interesting to read through my post.

  • Master and teach the kids more about emotional regulation.
  • Give them some space to practise decision-making.
  • Give them some challenges to face.

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1.Master and teach the child more about emotional regulation:This is a really good way to raise a successful child, and it has been done by parents who are capable of regulating one emotion. Although this is not a skill we are born with, it is a strategy to teach our children how to become successful by controlling their emotions towards something.

Teaching children to regulate their emotions cannot be fully accomplished by assigning them a piece of exercise or work; rather, they can develop the mind of being self-emotionally regulated by observing how their parents behave or regulate themselves toward things.

For example,when a child breaks any of your rules and you end up shouting and yelling at him or her, he or she will never be calm whenever they get upset. So as to give it a conclusion, emotional regulation can only be taught to kids by the way parents do their things and also how they regulate their emotions.

2.Give them some space to practice decision making:
You might really be surprised to see this on my list. This is one of the best ways to raise a child to be successful in life. Parents who are always in the line of control, telling them what to do, are therefore doing more harm to the future of the child than good.

Making good decisions in life takes practice, and as such, we must give our children those opportunities. Never force a child to follow your words; instead, guide him or her in making the right choice or decision. Go on and give them many choices to choose from on their own, and also do not forget to give them your decision on that very choice.

When they refuse to follow your instructions,don't take it too personally. Rather, leave them to follow their own path, and at the end, they will face the consequences on their own.
With this simple step,you can raise your child to be successful and also gain his or her trust because if they fail with their own decisions,they will have experience and always ask for your opinion or guidelines when making another decision.

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3.Give them some challenges to face, but not just enough.:This is the last item on my list of the ways to raise a successful and nice child. Raising a child in a good way and giving them challenges will really make them feel better and stronger than you think they are.

According to my research,I just know that children can only be motivated to work towards the goals they think they can achieve. Although giving children challenges that are too easy or too difficult makes them weak in working towards their goals, we as parents must all give our children challenges that are within their current capacity in order to raise a child who is ready to fight for his or her future and succeed in life.

Conclusion

I hope you enjoyed reading this post. If you really want more of this post, just let me know in the comment section of this post and I will be making it at least thrice a week. Learning the habit of raising a child in the proper way so that they can achieve their goal and aim as kids will really make life more interesting for them. Letting them make decisions on their own and giving them some challenges will go a long way to being a block to their success.

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 2 years ago 

Thank you @ogwo for sharing this advice with us here but I hope you as a child you are doing well and you are being cared for the way you write in your post, please also extend the advice to your care givers, We appreciate your creative writing.

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 2 years ago 

Thank you for the support,I will do that.

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