Club5050 || Teach Children How To Obey || Payout 10% To @steemkids || By @mrazmat

You and your four-year-old stubbornly try to persuade. It seems that every time your child obeys somehow.

Your child will ignore you when you ask him to do something he does not want to do. *

When you stop a child from doing something, he starts crying in anger.

You might think, "That's what kids do at this age. Hopefully he won't do it when he grows up."

The truth is that you can teach young children to obey. How can you do that?

The cause of the problem.

When your baby was born, caring for him seemed to be the purpose of your life. You were always there to serve him. As soon as he cried, you ran after him. The need is met by the child. Since the child cannot do anything for himself, it is appropriate for the parents to pamper him. Of course, the child needs the constant attention of his parents.

Because the parents are proud of their young child, the child feels that he is the owner of the house and the purpose of his parents' life is simply to serve him. He has been overthrown. Now the parents should obey him, not him. This is a big blow to the child. Some children get angry because of this. Some even refuse to listen to their parents.

Parents should play a new role in this ordeal. They should exercise their discretion and make it clear to the child what they expect from him / her. What can you do if you do not recognize the authority of?

What can you do?

Exercise authority.

Your child will obey you only if you make it clear that authority is in your hands. So use your authority lovingly. People who call themselves experts. Some of them think that the word "Ikhtiar" has the meaning of being strict. One expert called the authority of parents "illegal". But if the parents If they do not exercise their authority and let the child loose, then the child may get confused, spoiled and think that he can do his own thing in everything. But just think, is the child like this? Will he grow up to be a responsible person?

Correct the child. Correction,

according to one dictionary, is "training that teaches a person to obey and develop self-control. This training is often given in the form of rules that are punishable by breaking." "Of course, parents should correct their children to the best of their ability and never abuse them. But this does not mean that parents should correct their children in such a way that they do not realize their mistake." It should be clear to the child that if he makes a mistake, he will suffer the consequences, and he will be motivated to make changes.

Give clear instructions.

Some parents simply ask their children to obey them, for example, they may say: "Please clean your room if you wish." By speaking in a manner they are showing good manners, but doing so may diminish the importance of parental authority in the eyes of the children. Whether or not to comply with parental requests, therefore, instead of relinquishing your authority, instruct your children in straightforward words.

Be sure to stick to your word.

If you don't say anything, stick to your word. Talk to your spouse in advance about what you will say to the child and then support each other. You tell your child that he or she will be punished for doing something. If you do, don't let the child argue or explain at length why you have made a decision. The place of yes ... and the place of no ”will be easier for both you and your child

Be kind.

Family is not an arrangement in which the child's opinion is sought in every matter, nor is it an arrangement in which the child's opinion is not consulted at all. Instead, it is an arrangement from God. There is an arrangement under which parents lovingly train their children to have a good personality. Believe me, when you correct your children, they will learn obedience and feel safe in your arms.

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@mrazmat