Does woman have a place in the world of men?

Some people still affirm that the true mission in the life of women is motherhood, and they exclude us from a world that they consider more of them than ours ... But what is the reality?

The destiny of women, their true mission in life is to be a mother. We've heard it so many times that we don't really hear it anymore. Consciously or subconsciously we take it as a law of nature: what "must be". We seldom look at what this concept really means, and how it pigeonholes women.

According to people who think in this way, nothing less than our mission in life is to be moms, our entire existence must focus on the biological fact of conceiving, giving birth, raising, period. Of course, due to an imperative need, we do not have time, we can work or pursue a career. Under other circumstances, psychological or emotional need, for example we are deviating from the true goal of our lives. Unfortunately, still many people not only believe this concept, but also abide by it. If they think this way, it is because they have not really seen or understood the other side of the coin.

The woman is also a person

To say that women are mothers first of all, is to say that we were not born free, that we are tied to our sex, and it limits us; that our reproductive system defines us and, more importantly, governs us. However, there is a completely real fact and alien to the tradition or the concept in which men have us: women are also human beings with talents, hobbies, desires, ideals, aspirations, our own mentality, and we do not think or feel with it. reproductive system, but, like all people, with the mind, the soul or the heart. Why limit ourselves to it? To put it clearly: we are as people as the most man of men can be and, like him, we have the right to choose our lives. If we all agree that woman is a complete human being, with her own personality, why limit her to her role as mother?

The true place of women

Many people are willing to admit that, indeed, the woman is a free human being and everything else, while she has no children. Then she must dedicate herself to her body and soul, forgetting herself.

Our society has been structured in this way for the convenience of some or the submission of others. We don't really get anything out of reviewing the past in this article. We all see the reality of our days, we know that human beings have evolved and that, today, we have other aspirations and needs. And women have every right in the world to satisfy them.

Those who wish, and are willing to make the necessary adjustments according to their particular situation, if they can be mothers and have a career, study or work at the same time. Those who define us as a "reproductive being" are denying all other aspects of our personality, and treating us as a one-dimensional being.

Unfortunately, many women fell into this trap, and only felt "normal" if they limited themselves in this way. But can a person who denies herself be happy? And let's see a point that directly concerns children: can this person make you happy? Set a good example? If, on the contrary, by his example he perpetuates a meaningless tradition, he is limiting his children as human beings, both the boy and the girl, he reinforces the "roles that society demands ... he adds one more link to the chain. And

The future: of the two

For the society of the future to be different, and for both men and women to choose their lives with full freedom, it is necessary to lay the foundations for that change: now.

If from today women combine careers with children or marriage, and men participate in raising children and in household chores, future generations possibly our children will not have the taboos that we have had to overcome. To achieve this, it is important that women learn to see ourselves as human beings capable of choosing our lives, and of participating in the world as people.

Possibly this brings with it some sacrifices, as the couple will have to make certain adjustments for the home to work. But isn't it worth it? In this way, the woman will be exercising her right as a human being to fully realize herself in her totality: as a mother and as a person. Your children will grow up in a home of whole people: not halves that, because they feel trapped in their roles, do not complement each other.

Men are intelligent beings, so we understand that women are potentially capable of undertaking any work for which they feel a true vocation, and for which they are properly prepared.

Women have their place in the arts, letters and science. It can be useful to our society in intellectual and also technical functions. The men who seek them to be the companions of our lives, we also welcome them in the factor services markets in any workplace such as: secretaries, teachers, nurses, doctors, lawyers, singers, actresses, executives, scientists, etc.

I sincerely believe that this is the opinion of the generality of those of us who belong to the male sex, because times have changed and so much that there are not many left macho at heart.

The super female sex

Some men go even further. And we consider that: the female sex is truly the "super sex". The female sex is the one that conceives, gestates and gives birth to the new life. The woman, more than the man, for this reason is closer to the creative concept. Although, of course, this was only a humorous exposition a joke, since she did not intend to start a polemic about a religious dogma (God created man in his image and likeness). In the generality of the species, although there are exceptions, it is she who feeds and protects her young, and he dissociates once the time of the mother and the newborns has passed.

The man, physically stronger although not physiologically, has been more associated with the functions related to the conservation of the species, as protector and provider, since biologically in fertilization his role is brief and purely circumstantial. But women, with smaller stature and less bulky muscles, are also physiologically stronger.

Statistics show that although many more boys are born, they die dramatically while still young. And in the animal kingdom, males and males are generally survived by females and females, respectively (due to disease, accident, and fighting-wars). And in order not to unnecessarily lengthen this question, I end up recognizing that the female is the true "stronger sex". Who doubts it?

Do women have a place in the men´s world?

Without a doubt, they always have. When have we men excluded them from our activities? With them we exchange eternal vows when we get married, because we count on them to help us found our homes. Because between men and women there have never been wars.

We have never seen them as enemies, but as allies; so we are glad that together we can now share the complex tasks of our progressive societies. But they already knew that there was going to be a but .. But neither the man nor the woman can see with pleasure that the "main objective super sex, to pursue a career. The woman who accepts her condition, who is satisfied If you are and you really want to be successful, you must be well prepared for the greatest event: motherhood, and the upbringing and education of your children.

It is very good that: if husband and wife work in the street, this helps her with the chores. He also has to share the kitchen and the laundry. If they both go out to work, she sometimes out of necessity, the whole burden cannot rest on the female shoulders. And when women who go out to work because they need it financially, we all agree that necessity obliges, but we are analyzing the ideal conditions and not the needs.

She is the active, dynamic, aggressive woman, who makes her way in life according to her ability, preparation and opportunities. The ideal woman has a happy and useful life. This woman is the true companion of her man, and the two are part of the couple and this woman must know how to handle her work, sewing and haute cuisine, as she will feel pleasure in being a housewife for when she decides to have a child. that should be dedicated to him. She is the one who will nurse him and guide his first steps and be vigilant in his shadow until he is of school age.

Or is it that a woman voluntarily wishes to delegate this to someone else, and give up her main mission?

At this stage of the child's growth, she will be able to partially resume her work outside the home, to be again molding her son when the little one is back home in the afternoons.

Finally, when the adolescent knows how to walk confidently towards his mature life as an adult, the woman will be able to fully return to her professional life.

Yes, the ideal woman has a place in the world of men. But there her provisional roles. She will be able to occupy this place, when she is not dedicated to the exclusive functions of her sex, which are definitely more important because if there is something that fathers cannot do, it is to fill the role of mothers because it is a myth spread by women. feminist women that the world of work is a man's world that world belongs to both: men and women.

Because they have shown that they can as well as we do the work that until recently was the exclusive domain of the male. However, there are functions that are exclusive to women. So if we can speak of a "world of women, which men cannot invade. And if the role that corresponds to women is not performed by her, who in our Society is going to fill that void.?

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