Steemit engagement contest week3|| defend the statement, a womans place is in the kitchen by @donpearl|| 13-5-2022.

in STEEMIT PAKISTAN2 years ago (edited)

Introduction

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Hello my great people, greetings to you all. Its my pleasure to participate in this challenge. Am so happy to start my post on steem pakistan with a contest. To be sincere, i love this amazing challenge and am happy to be part of it. I say thanks to you @steempakistan.

I have happily choose the statement i will love to defend, and below shows the statements i choose.

  • You would stay happier if you are unmarried
  • A woman's place is in the kitchen

YOU WOULD STAY HAPPIER IF YOU ARE UNMARRIED
Many people think and defend marriage as a prison, that is why they conclude that one can stay happier if you remain unmarried.

Many married rich ladies as well as celebrities run out of marriage, they conclude that marriage is something else. Therefore, it is better to stay single and enjoy your life. The question is, IS IT TRUE??

I say capital YES with my following reasons.

  • Freedom = When you are single, you will be free to do anything, and go anywhere, but once you get married, you must take permission before going anywhere. Your permission may or may not be granted as well, and once it wasn't granted, you have no option than to stay.

  • Education = When you marry someone that knows the value of education, thats when you will continue your education if at all you didnt finish it before getting married, but of you marry who dont know the value of education, you will be forced to think that education is a scam as people think.

  • Time = When you are single, you have enough time to take care of your self and other things, but when you are married with kids, you will be overloaded with work, most times, you wont have time for your self as usual. Some ungrateful husband will not even appreciate your effort and that can make you unhappy.

  • Decision = Your decision making when you are single can never be the same when you get married. Remember your hubby has the final say in everything. You can only suggest, not decide. And most times, your suggestion might be declined even if it will work when being put into practice and you have no option than to support your bubby.

IT IS TRUE AM HAPPY IN MY MARRIAGE BUT SOME MARRIAGES ARE NOT

A WOMAN'S PLACE IS IN THE KITCHEN

An adage says : A woman's education ends in kitchen.

Do you believe that? YES i do with my following reasons;
There are many reasons why i believe that women's education ends in kitchen.

No1

No matter a woman's level of education, she might get married and will be forced to stop work by her husband and demand that you take care of house and children. It might lead to dragging but on most occasion he wins. Therefore a woman's place is in the kitchen.

NO2

There is no level of money a woman will have and wont visit the kitchen unless you hired a cook. The cook you hired is still a woman and besides not all men accept strangers into their home and not all men likes eating food apart from home made food from their wife.

NOTE: Taking care of your husband and children should not be delegated to house help because it is the responsibility of a wife.

No matter what you are in life, no matter the privilege you have as a woman, it cannot prevent you from entering the kitchen and prepare food. Therefore, women place is in the kitchen.

With these few point of mine, hope am able to convince you that women's place is in the kitchen.

Conclusion

There are many responsibility a wife has, kitchen is one of them and the most important.

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Hello.Modern times,more and more young couples want to maintain their single status,it means less commitment and generally short lasting relationships,I am also happily married and well the man no matter how rich he is always wants to taste a dish prepared by his wife.

Yesooo, thats one thing with some men, they only eat food prepared by their wife and i love that.

Great content @donpearl

I know defending a woman's place to be in the kitchen is something many will argue about but in the end it's still women that do almost everything in the house.
You will still cook, clean e.t.c.

Your points are really convincing.

Thanks dear

You are welcome

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