Some other skills that shaped my life and made me stronger 💪🏽

Max the climber 🧗‍♀️

To me, life is beautiful, and life should be simple. Fulfillment comes to us as a result of how we utilize our energy on things that shape our lives for better. I became a climber at the age of 15 in our local community in West Africa.

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After the civil war, most of our parents that survived the sting of war started rebuilding the ruin of their lives through every possible means; some of them that already operates banks before the war where denied of their money in the bank and were given just 2 to 20 Naira each by the government to start their lives again.

Many families then depended on farming to survive while others became traders; this is the reason why the Igbos are good in business and has become successful traders for many years.

Parents began to equip their children in many skills that can easily make them self-dependent even as teenagers. My dad happened to be one of those people that has the scars of war on them, those scars helped to shape our lives so that we’re almost fearless and as bold as we could. My late dad taught me on how to survive awful terrain and critical economic times. He went ahead to introduce us to many wild vegetables and fruits that are not harmful to human consumption; these herbs and vegetables as he said helped them to survive in bushes, forests, and caves during the war.

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I climbed my way up to college

Dad taught me farming and helped me to learn climbing 🧗 before he died as a result of bullets inside his body which he had no opportunity for surgery. He died as I was about entering the college in 2001. I started taking care of my mom and my education from those skills and through farming as well. I had a childhood friend Kenedy who currently resides in Ghana 🇬🇭, we used to climb and cut palm heads for people in different villages for money.

Kenedy and I made money for our tuition bill and used the excess on taking care of our families and other poor friends in our community. We used to collect 20 Naira (our local currency) for one palm tree 🌴 climbed, and at the end of the day, one could barely 😰 make 100 bucks; we couldn’t make much per day because it’s something that we do after school hours.

The skill hasn’t left me after so many years of my life

*I harvested my palm fruits few days back

I left to the city after my college for other professional trainings and academic studies. After my marriage, I started building a home that comprises of a mother, father, and children. At a point, I found out that other extended families of mine, my neighbors and community also needs my assistance in so many ways.

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And I decided to step up on my many skills to be able to maximize my energy and potential as a man. Indeed, I’ve found great joy and fulfillment in doing many things for myself and for others around. We have some farm lands that we purchased which most of them are being powered by Bitcoin Cash, and in some of these farm lands are palm tree. I tried hiring laborers to harvest the palm fruits for us but each time I called them, they kept disappointing me; sometimes they won’t come until the fruits gets bad and rotten.

I can’t imagine the change that has happened to my people in recent years, youths aren’t ready anymore to help themselves as they should; unlike in our time as teens. I was looking for youths that may need those supports through rendering such services like climbing and harvesting of palm fruits, but to my surprise, they’re no more interested in those skills and self building capacity. Well, I believe in change, but I still encourage my people to be self reliance and dependent through skills acquisition and entrepreneurship.

I harvested fruits from my palm trees 🌴

Knowing that depending on others especially when they’re not willing to do much could not help me, I decided to do as much as can for myself by invoking and applying my climbing skills again. My wife really enjoys those uncommon adventures and skills that are being displayed by someone special to her life. The last time I climbed, she picked up my phone and started shooting some clips, and snapping some pictures that you’re seeing now.

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Time may not permit me to write about the uses and economic benefits of palm trees in this particular article. We may talk about that later someday.

Thanks for coming around to share from my true life story. I appreciate you always.

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Una historia triste pero de gran aprendizaje, que bueno que aprendistes todas esas enseñanzas que tu padre te ha enseñado , estas listo para vivir en situación de austeridad , de resolver conflictos y seguir con la vista hacia delante mientras otros se desvanecen en el camino.

Hello friend, I'm sorry about your father. It's good that you love growing palm trees. You can see that he loves his work and that is wonderful and his wife shares the love for his work. Hopefully many young people are encouraged to work in the field. I congratulate you for your wonderful content. I hope wars don't exist. The story of your father who was an example for you is very sad. I am pleased to see that he is a good son, husband and great neighbor. God bless you.🙏

Oh, this is lovely! I’m encouraged. Thanks for reading my content and commenting. I could see how your comment flows out deep from your heart.

It's really cool your life story that you write in this post. I salute you. But by the way, life in West Africa is the same as Acehnese life in Indonesia. We have also just finished the era of war with the government of the Indonesian state, so now we as the people of Aceh are trying to rise from adversity after the turbulent war between the Free Aceh Movement and the Indonesian National Army which ended in 2005 with the Peace Agreement in the city of Helsinki, Finland.

Greetings to you friend. I hope we can be good friends and support each other.

Regards. 🙏

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