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Hope you all are doing well and living your life very well and very peacefully, enjoying and getting a lot out of your life like learning lessons, this is the challenge. In the same sense, it is about what we have achieved in our life, whether the bad things that happened to us were bad for us or the bad things that happened were better for us, so I am very happy to take part in this challenge.

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I would like to tell you that sometimes what happens to us in our own life is bad for us forever, no, not forever. temporary all these things are temporary sometimes we are so happy and for some moments we are sad and sometimes we are so sad that after that we are so happy that we forget that sadness we all If something is forgotten, then these things do not last, so don't think that something bad is happening to us, then it is not a good thing, it is bad only for a short period of time, maybe it can also happen. That they do bad things to parents, they stop you from things in childhood, so it is better for that too, at this time we don't like it, they forbid us from some things even in youth, and we don't like it, but at one time. It means that what we don't like, it changes from good to bad, it gives us a new look, it teaches us how to live, it stands by us, sometimes even our friends betray us and they also betray us. It seems very bad that what has happened to us will not be good for us, but there comes a time when we realize that no, man, who has grown old with us, has he stood us, if it was not bad, maybe we Those who are walking on the wrong path continue to walk on itIf something goes wrong, cheating on you, these things happen in many different relationships, in parents, siblings, friends, the person you love so much, even with your partner. Makes you feel bad or deceives you or stops you. So don't think that it will last forever. This thing is temporary. There will come a time. You don't think it's okay for me, what happened to me or what he did to me. If you don't do well with them, then you stand up. You have the power inside you. It's like, look, Allah tests you and leaves you alone, so you think, what has happened? They are making you strong, they are holding you when you start to fall, so that is the principle of life, this is a small world, this life keeps happening in it, and we will not say this. That we will always be happy, we will not be cheated, we will not be forbidden, especially in the family, this thing is done. Yes and till today I think why I have to do this for this work, this is that, but don't think that, don't let yourself down, if they forbid, then get angry, but after some time, see that. What they have forbidden is not yours, it is opened for you one by one, it comes in a form like a rose, then you feel that then you say, "No, this bad thing happened to me or this." The one who cheated me or the one who has left me is good, it was better for me, the way is open for me, all this is what you say, so please do not mentally torture yourself with this thing in your mind. Fallen cheated on me or I get blocked it's been so bad for me it will feel like this for the rest of my life no it all changes and to change you it's bad for you this is my experience of my Life.

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Do you think sometimes we need to be a bit harsh if it is for our loved one's betterment ? Justify your point

Yes, we think that sometimes we do bad things, especially with our children, so we are not doing it wrong, we are doing it for their betterment, especially for our children. They are doing it for the betterment, for their ease, so as not to cause any difficulty for them, they are taking care of them, those who scold them, those who forbid them for small things. They really feel bad but sometimes we have to be tough to do right by our children. There are some things for which it is permissible to be angry with you, and you should do it, it improves them, they fear you, they do not do the wrong things that they should do.

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Have you ever been bad for others for thier Betterment? Share if there any ancient you have.

Yes something like this happened to me then I was in class 10 and my exams were going on I used to prepare my paper very hard and dedicated but sometimes it happened to me that I I used to go and speak, but once I had my math paper and I forgot to ask a question, that is, I didn't know it. My friend was sitting on the next seat. I asked her something, she didn't tell me. The time was very little left for me, I asked him again that help me, I have one question left, help me, but he kept on delaying, but he did not refuse me. When I got up and left, I felt very bad that my friend did not help me. When the result of the exam came, my friend failed the math exam in the exam and I passed my match paper with good marks. I would have failed and I got out of this paper with my hard work and passed, so I felt that the bad things that happen to us, which we think are not so, we also improve in them.

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Saleem I would advise you that even if something bad happens to you, don't think of it as a very strange thing that happened to you, don't sit with the shock, it also improves for you especially. But if any parents are stopping you for something, then it is best for you too

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