Don't Try To Control Other's Life, Set Them Free

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We born to be free. We may have power to control everything even other's life but we shouldn't misuse the power we have. No one wants to be under control if anybody wants to under control that would be exception. For me my freedom is important and I never ever allow anyone to control me according to their rules.

Many centuries passed when human as slave sold in the market, can you imagine that? Poor people sell themselves because they want food to live, rich people brought servants for house keeping and rich people also control the life of a slave, slaves often tolerated physical torture as their master did to them. Those days are gone thankfully.

Now at this present we human set our dogs even free to live a beautiful life and there controlling life of a human sounds really irritating. No one want to be rule by others, freedom lovers never compromise their freedom and it doesn't matter how rich or poor you are actually.

If we come to the relationship here the story is same. No kids want to be controlled by parents after become matured and capable to take decisions, husbands or wives also try to control their partner and that is also not good.

If you love your relationship, you should give space and the person loves you will never ever leave you alone but if you try to rule your love, you going to lose your loved one.

Once I saw a woman trying to teach her daughter in front of other people that what she should talk and what she should not, in that case the girl was matured enough and she felt insulted because she was ruling by her mother and as a daughter she have no right to tell her opinion. The girl was feeling down and stopped talking to her mother for several days.

Say the mother was right but they way she stopped her girl that was not right, the mother could taught her personally and should stop her girl with maturity. Our behavior shouldn't be like we are accessing other's life, as we will tell it should be obeyed, this kind of expectations are silly.

I think its same about other animals. We keep birds inside the cage and try to control the life of other animals and it also not good most of the time, birds born to fly and long time living inside cage make them gloomy and they die. So better we set them free and let them fly. Same about human, let them live set them free.