We Are Difficult To Be Happy When Everything Is Done Forced
As we mature, we will realize that the hardest thing to do is when we have to be ourselves. There are so many demands and roles that we have to play. Until sometimes we forget what it feels like to be yourself.
Even the people around us always wear masks. Some are even willing to humble themselves in order to gain sympathy. Some have the heart to sacrifice others so that they can be praised. There are those who pretend they can do anything even though they have no power or ability.
Pretending to feel fine even though there are serious problems to deal with. Wearing someone else's mask to be flattered or complimented on. Pretending to smile in front of people we don't like. Wearing a smiling face mask in front of the people who have hurt us. Pretending is inherently tiring. And life is too short to spend just being someone else.
What makes it so hard for us to be ourselves? One reason is because we fear being hated. We are afraid of being hated and shunned when showing our true identity. We are not confident in everything we have. Until finally we are willing to wear a mask so that we can be the same or uniform with other people. And not everyone can dare to be themselves and away from sympathy.
Feeling difficult to be happy and comfortable every day, maybe one of the reasons is because we do everything forced. Forced to be someone else. Forced to wear masks in order to be accepted in the environment.
It's different if we can do things we like in our own way. There is irreplaceable satisfaction and happiness. It can even make life more colorful and fun. If everything is done in a forced way, it is certainly difficult to live happily.
But sometimes life is full of its own surprises and mysteries. There are many things that happen that are beyond our control. Until finally we inevitably have to wear masks to get attention and help. Whatever condition or problem you are facing right now, try to be yourself, Ladies. It's hard, but that way life will feel more meaningful, right?