1.Magic Movies

All the time, I like the movie "true love comes first". Almost every Christmas, I go over it again. I think it's a movie specially prepared for Christmas. It's suitable for single people to watch alone, and it's also suitable for sharing with friends, family and lovers.

In my opinion, it has a simple and profound magic. Part of it comes from the beginning of the movie: "whenever I feel worried about the world, I think of the entry gate of Heathrow airport. People think the world is full of hatred and greed, but I disagree. In my opinion, love is everywhere, although it may not come to the magnificent, but love always exists. Father and son, mother and daughter, husband and wife, boyfriends, girlfriends, old friends, when the plane hit the world trade center, the last call, talk about not revenge, but love. If you pay attention, you will find that love is everywhere. love actually is all around。”

Yes, it makes me see love everywhere, and I want to see the world full of love.

Another part of the magic comes from the fact that I can see different forms of love in the movies. Maybe it's also a gift from Santa Claus. Let's see the shyness and beauty of first love, the sincerity and moving of secret love, the innocence and innocence of mutual attraction, the ice breaking love between Cinderella and Prince, which is also like a modern fairy tale, and the stumbling and love between old wives and husbands. Only when you know love can you have love, and only when you have love can you keep happiness.

I think these stories are also a kind of blessing. I hope we can see the diversity and gorgeous, strong and fragile of love, and let us pursue it more firmly.

2.Many kinds of love, many kinds of love.

Writer Jamie and cleaning woman Elia.

Don't give up love easily because of a betrayal, everyone may be hurt, but be bold to pursue. And sometimes love comes all of a sudden, regardless of national boundaries and status. People should not miss it easily because of obstacles.
Jamie is in love with his girlfriend. He seems to be crazy about her. But the other side derailed, he was heartbroken and went abroad alone to relax. As a writer, he rented a quiet old house and wrote while forgetting. In order to keep the house clean, the landlord hired a cleaner named Elia, who is Portuguese and doesn't speak French. Before leaving, the landlord told Jamie that he needed to send Elia home. Out of politeness, Jamie tried to find a topic when driving Elia home for the first time, but they didn't speak the same language.

Fortunately, Elia is serious and will not affect Jamie's original intention of hiring her. But once, she made a small mistake. She brought coffee to Jamie, who was writing outside. She picked up the cup that Jamie had pressed on the manuscript paper. But unexpectedly, a gust of wind blew Jamie's unprinted manuscript into the lake.

Elia was startled. She ran to the lake, took off her shoes and clothes, and jumped into the lake to pick up the wet manuscripts. Perhaps, Jamie is at that moment of heart, she is so frank and natural, like a lovely deer. Later, Jamie returned home and began to live a normal life. But interestingly, he began to learn Portuguese. Elia, too, began to learn English after work. Maybe, both of them realize that it's unrealistic to be together, but they still want to try to get close to each other, even to learn each other's language.

On the night of Christmas Eve, Jamie had already bought a gift and rushed home, but at the moment of entering, he suddenly realized that Christmas should be spent with his favorite person. He immediately ran back to the airport, found aliya, who was serving in the restaurant, and proposed in Portuguese: "I know you must think I'm crazy, but sometimes love doesn't make sense. I can live here and you can live in England without any reason." Elia also answered him in English, she would.

Sometimes, we feel that foreign love is very far away. We not only have to face the test of distance, but also need the understanding and acceptance of language, customs, lifestyle and family members. However, these are not the biggest problems in the eyes of true love. If you are brave and sincere enough, you can embrace each other and get happiness.

Sarah, the female staff, and Carl, the mysterious designer.

It turns out that if you don't take the initiative and can't properly handle all kinds of relationships in life, even two people who like each other can only miss it.

As soon as Sarah started, she fell in love with Carl, the mysterious designer in the company. But in the past two years and seven months, three days and two hours, she has done everything except secret love. The boss advised her to take action, "first invite him to drink, and then tell him that she wants to marry him and have a baby for him."

Sarah has a brother who needs to call her all the time. She takes care of his emotions every time and gets through whenever, wherever and whatever. Perhaps the one that really affected her happiness was that she and Carl made progress. When they were preparing to spend spring bridge together, she connected her brother's phone twice in a row. In the end, Carl and she fell back on the co-worker relationship.

I was thinking that if Sarah could better deal with her relationship with her brother and explain to Carl why she would always answer his brother's phone and neglect him, maybe they would have different endings.

Sam and Joan.

First love needs courage, and for us before the age of 18, love is also an important thing that needs to be pursued.
Seven or eight year old Sam, like his classmates. He was a little self abased, feeling that he couldn't do anything, while the other side was shining. Because of this, he decided to learn the drum for Joan, become excellent and shining, and let her see him. At the end of the semester, when Joanne was leaving England, he finally got up the courage to express his heart to her at the airport.

They let me see that the beauty of first love is that I'm a little nervous, but I want to give you the best.

Karen and Harry.

I like Karen very much. She loves her family, takes care of her children and devotes herself to life. But she also encountered a very embarrassing thing - her husband's mental infidelity.
Karen is a housewife. Everything is family oriented. Her husband, Harry, is the boss of a company and is being seduced by Miya, a beautiful employee.
Two people's conversation, more or less ambiguous, for example, "you won't take dressed up pop boyfriend?" "No, I'll just wait for a kiss under the branch."

Perhaps because he is an old man and wife, Harry has no special passion for Karen. He didn't want to take her to the party, and he didn't want to chat with her so much. On the contrary, she was a little excited about the explicit hint of the beautiful staff.

In the movie, there was a detail that moved me a lot. At the beginning, Karen thought that her husband, who always bought her silk scarves as Christmas gifts, had bought an expensive gold necklace this year, so she was very looking forward to and happy. But on Christmas day, when she opened the gift, she found that it was just a CD of her favorite female singer. Her heart is very shocked, lost, because she has secretly seen the necklace, but it is not for themselves!
But Karen didn't have a seizure in front of her two children. She pretended to be calm and said she wanted to go to the bathroom. Then she went to the bedroom and turned on the stereo. Then she collapsed. She was crying, sad, betrayed, but soon she dried her tears, pretended nothing had happened, and took her children to the Christmas show.

I think she must really want to ask her husband, who was the necklace given to? Do you fall in love with others and want to abandon the whole family?

But she held back and waited until she was calm enough to talk to her husband, "my husband bought a gold necklace and gave it to others at Christmas. (I have to) calm down and see if it's just gifts, or one night stands and necklaces, or, worst of all, love and necklaces. Would you stay if it were you? Or give up everything and run away? "

I think Karen is emotional and rational in dealing with her husband's possible mental infidelity or how to get along with her husband and wife. On the one hand, she believes that "true love is forever" (she has talked with her husband), on the other hand, she will be considerate and not act impulsively.

Actors John and Judy who make the third class films.

Love with desire is not necessarily impure.

The first time they met, they were very embarrassed. They needed to shoot intimate scenes and take off their clothes, but their love was the most innocent part, a kiss. The two stood in front of Judy's house. It was a bit cold. They said good night to each other like teenagers, and then couldn't help kissing each other. They were so scared that they were touched. The girl said, all my wishes for Christmas are you. And the boy after parting, jump down the steps, happy to jump up like a child.

Best man and brid

"My secret love for you is mine. If you can be happy, I will be enough

It's a folksy story, but it touches a lot of people - I fell in love with my best friend's wife. The best man is introverted and not good at expression. The bride always thinks that he hates himself. But at the wedding, the best man quietly prepared a surprise for the bride. The audience stood up to perform musical instruments and pretended to be innocent, so that the bride and groom would not know that he did it. When the bride came to him after marriage to make up, she found out his intention. On Christmas Eve, the best man took a big card and wrote out what he wanted to say. But he knew that it was the beginning and the end, because he wanted the girl to be happy.

There is a kind of love is not to possess, not to be with her, but to wish her happiness forever!

In addition to these, the film also shows the relationship between several pairs of lovers, friends and family. Each of them has his own view of love and emotional pursuit. Some people feel that he is a saint of love, but they are not proud in England, and they did not expect to find true love in the United States. Some people lose their true love and think that they will not meet anyone who is interested in love. They can go around and meet someone they like in their stepson's school People. Yes, the world is so big and the life is so long. We can't draw a conclusion too early. At least we have to have a try.

3.Believe in love everywhere

But what makes me sad is that many people are becoming more and more eager and utilitarian about love and affection. I have seen the data of "520 love Bill survey report" published by treasure.com before, which shows that 80% of men and women are less than half a year patient in pursuing love.

Do you feel very familiar with it? For example, you and the other party know each other for two months, a little favor, but not clear. I decided to get along with you for at least half a year to really understand and determine the love relationship. But the other party less than half a year, suddenly cold, as if you did something wrong!

But you need to be clear that this is not your problem, but the problem of those eager, utilitarian and selfish people who are not sincere and serious enough in their feelings and marriage.

So, the more this kind of time, the more I like the movie true love comes first. Every time I watch it, I feel cured, warm and beautiful - because it tells us how to live in love and marriage.

Who won't be hurt, disappointed, confused or at a loss? From a seven or eight year old boy to the end of his life, no one dares to say that I know everything, and I can go all the way in love and marriage. All we can do is believe and experience!

"True love is supreme" almost interprets the love we can meet, want to meet or have met. In this world, there is no perfect lover, no completely smooth feelings, as long as we live, we will encounter all kinds of problems like people in the film.

What we need to learn is the ability to love, to believe that love is everywhere.

love actually is all around。