A Man and A Woman-Lonely and helpless

True love is two loneliness, mutual protection, mutual caress, happy encounter.
——Nie Hualing

Inadvertently watched "men and women", the score is not high, but it deeply attracted me to brush three times. There are not many characters in the film, and the plot is not complicated. The actor's delicate and restrained performance does not show great ups and downs, but whether it is the female owner's crying in the car, the smoking outside the car, or the male owner's complex expression when he looks at the smaller and smaller shadow in the rearview mirror with tears, it conveys a kind of heartache, heartbreak and recovery To the lonely origin of helplessness and no solution.

When Finland, which is quiet, clean and always snowing, appears in front of the audience, when the melodious music starts, two lonely souls meet. They are very lonely, although they have a decent career, bright appearance, seemingly perfect family, but in fact, they all have the pain and worry of humanity. The biggest worry comes from children. At the beginning of the film, the audience finds something strange. The son of the woman owner reaches out to his mother because she says "be careful, there is a car" and protects him. The man sends his daughter to camp, but the daughter doesn't say a word in the car, so she gets out of the car without saying hello or looking at her father. With the advance of the plot, the audience suddenly realized that it was two sick children. As a parent, the greatest wish is the health and happiness of their children! Unfortunately, if you have a sick child, which parents will be calm? Moreover, both men and women are parents who love their children very much, so it is difficult for outsiders to feel their inner pain. People are born lonely, and this kind of pain undoubtedly aggravates their loneliness.

The man is a very talented architect. His daughter is suffering from depression, and his wife is not worried. He is suspicious and lacks a sense of security. In the words of his mother-in-law, "she married at a young age and gave birth to a child. She only knows to watch her husband's life every day, but she hasn't grown up yet." When I was entertaining friends at home, when I saw the male owner chatting with the female and the partner, I was very jealous. I immediately hung up my mother's phone and said something embarrassing to the partner in front of everyone. Then I climbed up the balcony guardrail to play drunk. I was scared that my daughter peed her pants. Later, she took medicine to commit suicide. In the hospital, my mother-in-law said, "this is not the first time.". In fact, the wife is the biggest worry and burden of the male owner. In other words, the male owner has two unsound daughters who are hard to live without him. With this foreshadowing, it is not difficult to explain the final choice made by the man. Female owner, a fashion practitioner, she is graceful and graceful in the workplace, but as a mother, she can be described as a mess. Even if he was far away from his hometown and relatives and took his son to go to school abroad, he still couldn't control his behavior and even had a tendency to violence. The husband of the woman's owner disagreed with her on the issue of educating her son and felt that it was "vanity" to send his son to ordinary school. Life is like this, give you some, will take some.

When the man and the woman meet each other, they look so tired. But a few words and the occasional eye contact made the two strangers have a chemical reaction very quickly. The two hearts sparked and reflected on each other. The two bodies were close to each other and warmed the cold winter. Some critics say that men are good at teasing girls, they are bad men who never give up, men are not as brave as women, and so on. But if you pay attention to the details, you will find that the leader or leader of this relationship has always been the woman. The female owner's character is more tenacious and decisive, while the male owner has a comment on himself: "I feel that I am dispensable when I am alive".