WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIP WONT WORK!!!
Hello steemians,
My name is Chikoma Hannah from Nigeria. I am @analee on steemit.
This morning I am brooding upon something and that happens to be why some relationships never work. I have discovered that alot of people find it difficult to build profitable relationships be it with people, friends, colleagues etc. Relationships are the roots of life. It is a matter of necessity for us to built profitable Relationship. You can't live all by yourself. Imagine isolating yourself for 40years, you don't relate with people, not even animals. I can't help but laugh at this imagination.
My friends and I
What you should know about Relationship
- Relationship is built
Relationship is not a mirage. It doesn't happen by default or by accident. Relationship has building blocks. This includes trust, commitment, selflessness, sacrifices,empathy, respect, - Relationship is a currency!!
What money cannot give to you, or take you to relationship can give it to you. There is someone that knows someone that can help you get to someone. Relationship can bring you before people that matters, connect you to great minds, business partners, - Relationship has monetary values
You want to profit from your relationship sow into it. You money - Relationship can be inherited
Your children, your generation can inherit the relationship you have built. You connect them to it before they come to this world or if they already exist.
Your relationship won't work! Why?
- You want people to be what you want them to be
You must understand that people are different, you will be disappointed if you want people to behave the way you want them. Can two work together except they agree? Two can only work together when they agree and not when they are similar.
- Relationship built on emotions
Emotions is the most unstable thing on Earth. Emotions changes. Today you can be happy, tomorrow you are not. Judging from ones attitude towards you and concluding that moment can ruin a long lasting relationship. Some things are better let go off. Understanding is very key in any relationship you are involved in.
- Learn systematic absence
Learn the principle of scarcity and demand. Don't be too available. Sometimes you withdraw for a while so you won't be a pest. Some people like to cling on others especially when they are benefiting from them. Don't make the other party uncomfortable around you and decide to cut off from you.
I value every relationship I have, and I have decided to critically checkmate my relationships, and see to it that it is profitable and fruitful.
You should do that as well..
Thank you for reading....
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