Constraints and Limitations
With a heavy head and a tired body, I opened my eyes to the sound of my alarm after a fitful night of sleep. A wave of frustration washed over me as I rubbed the sleep from my eyes and stretched. For as long as I can remember, I've had to work around restrictions that other people seem to never face.
In elementary school, I was notoriously the last one to finish a race. Nothing I did was good enough to keep up with the rest of my class. I tried making up for it by devoting myself to school and extracurricular activities, but I still felt like I was falling short.
The older I got, the clearer my limitations became. Finding a fulfilling career was difficult for me, and I often felt like I was stuck in dead-end jobs. I struggled to form close friendships and relationships, even in my private life.
As discouraging as these constraints were, I was aware that they were not who I was. I had to master the art of overcoming obstacles while working within my constraints. I eventually realized that it was more important for me to focus on my own endurance and stamina than on keeping up with faster runners. I finally accepted my introverted nature and started actively seeking out people with whom I could connect.
And so, alas, I still have my confines. However, I've realized that we don't need to let our constraints stop us from succeeding. They can be difficult, but they can also teach us something new about ourselves and our world.