My personal Worries

I myself am a very calm and layed back guy, I can usually handle alot of things well. But a few things tend to get at me and I don't like it. Usually in my relationship.

One of the ongoing issues I have with my girlfriend (the girl I love very much) is she tends to ignore me. And give an excuse rather than to what she was actually doing. For example. She'll get home for work, I'll text her after she tells me. And then she'll leave me on read for a couple hours. (I can clearly see she's on and off social media for that time) and then she'll say. Sorry I fell asleep. So you fell asleep long enough to talk to your friends but not respond to me?

I for the most part try to not be possessive or obsessive but here recently she tried lying to me over a situation, so it broke my trust. And so I have a little more doubt in mundain things such as these. But of course when I try and talk about it. She says it's my fault for getting in my own head or not trusting her more.

I don't know anymore, women are hard to understand. I've never been able to wrap my head around some situations I have with her. I don't know if it's because something is really going on or we're just terrible at communicating with each other (I think it might be moreso the latter).