Are you in a toxic relationship... ?

nilumadu (57)in Writing & Reviews • 3 years ago

In this lifetime we have to negotiate with a variety of people. I think we cannot ever understand a person completely in our lifetime. So shall we talk about toxic people ? Who are they and how can we identify them? Sometimes we may still be like that one.

True Love is a noble thing. But sometimes we may fall in love with the wrong people. So we are mentally fallen but never show it. But remember , first of all you must love yourself. So let them go or eliminate them from your life. I am still studying people. So I would like to share my things with you.

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I feel that life is a collection of good and bad events. I slowly learn that when I go to react to all the bad things that happen to me, my energy dwindles and it prevents me from seeing the good in life. I understand that paying attention to the things that are bothering me and people is giving me the power to control something or someone else. So I think the most important thing is to take control of my life story. So don't take part with toxic people.

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What is this toxic? This is to be understood from the very subtle points. If you are emotionally blackmailed inside a relationship, it is toxic. That is, you control your emotions because of another person. Toxic people are very clever at taking advantage of someone's weak point. They will change your original version and try to set you to the mold of the person in their heart. Then you become a puppet of her or him. Shortly I can collect their attributes like below i mentioned.

Lack of trust

Mutual avoidance

Constant judgments

They don't communicate with you and spread just their opinions

Hostile atmosphere.

Brainwashing to succeed in their desires

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Be you and protect yourself. It is not wrong to say goodbye to a toxic relationship. You can lose yourself when dealing with people like this. You will meet such people in life not only in the name of love but also as friends and in the form of various bonds. You have to be smart enough to stay away from such people.

I'm still learning about myself. Even if I die tomorrow, I will study until my death . Because I believe that understanding myself and managing my mind, thoughts, and actions in a balanced way will have a positive effect on me as well as on others. Never let anyone control you. Especially from those toxic boys or girls.
Let us first understand ourselves. Second, let us apply the understanding to our inner peace. Third, as a result, we use unimaginably beautiful things for the good of ourselves and the world.