The reason behind I choose to make a distance from my favorite person|My life my story by @mayureshpandit

in Writing & Reviews3 years ago (edited)

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I didn't think I will write a post on this topic but the day finally comes when I write this post. I always mentioned in my diary post about my favorite person. She is always my favorite person as I learned a lot of things because of her. In the lockdown period we broke up but in Jan 2021 we started talking again. Our conversations and calls are always longer because I think we care about each other.

She is doing the testing for my projects and all the things are going well nowadays. But I noticed something she is a little bit trying to ignore me but I didn't look at this. But some days back my friend told me she likes someone else and she did a video call to him at night and I never trust that thing but he is showing some ss and I really felt bad. As I never think about this.

I feel bad as she chooses the wrong person and that person just showing the screenshot to everyone like he is doing something victorious. It's her choice but I felt bad but I never gone told her about this as she will feel very bad. Maybe he is her favorite person. I don't want to spoil her happiness. After a long time, she is happy and I don't want to spoil her happiness. If she likes him then it's better to let her go. If she didn't like him then she will find all the bad things about him.

I was really confused because when we talks I didn't realize that she likes another person even she is doing work very efficiently and she also cares for me. but at the same time, she didn't like it if I comment on her Instagram picture maybe her favorite person doesn't like that. She is asking about the comments very friendly way but I deleted all the comments on her picture. But I really don't know what is the actual situation is as her favorite person is her sis ex-boyfriend brother and they have very bad family relations. She also forced me to find a girl to marry but my goal is different and I wanted to travel and explore some new places and foods.

All the situation is very pretty confusing and I just decided to stand out from this and I will help her professionally whenever she needs. As currently, her professional career is not so good. She is very good at testing. I just want to see her success as she has a dream to do something for her parents. As I said whatever I achieve is because of her as when early stages of my career I am thinking to quit my jobs but she motivates me to do which is helps me to grow in the software industry.

I am just writing this article here as No one will know about her and I never shared any picture here so it's complete secrecy on steemit and I never react to such ss and I warn my friend to stop spreading such things. It's a complete choice of her what she wants to do with her life.

On 3rd December I also have blood vomiting and that time I really see her care and that's completely strange. At that time she cares for me and guide me like no one else. I decided that I never told her this secret and I will help her to grow professionally. Let's time will decide the future and I will keep promises which I gave to her. Maybe if she reads this article then she will find the reason behind my change in behavior. If she reads this then I will just want to tell her it's okay to have her favorite person different It is not compulsory if she is my favorite person then her favorite person is me. We are humans and every human has their own choice.

What do you think Am I doing right or wrong?


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 3 years ago 

To avoid future inconveniences, use only copyright-free images, Pixabay is a page that provides free photographs, but remember to always cite the links of each image used.

 3 years ago 

Yes I always mentioned the source of the image and from the next time I will create my own thumbnails

@mayureshpandit,

The first image you used is from tinybuddha.com. Their terms of use says you cannot use their content without written permission from TinyBuddha.

Can you show proof that you have got their written permission to use the image on Steem?

 3 years ago 

I search on google copyright-free images and from there I got this image and I also mentioned the source of the image

Hi @mayureshpandit,

When I do google image search using this link for all images google shows the image you used.

However when I do google image search using this link for creative common (free images) google doesn't show the image you used.

That means you did not search google for copyright-free images.

It looks like you either don't know how to do a search on google for free images or you are simply lying.

 3 years ago 

before doing the statement please keep in the mind I am also mentioned the source of the images. I am not pretending that image is mine and while searching my search keywords is "heartbreak copyright-free images" not like yours.

You just wasting my time in these arguments.

Hi @mayureshpandit,

I am not pretending that image is mine and while searching my search keywords is "heartbreak copyright-free images" not like yours.

Yes, you are not pretending that the image is yours. But you are pretending that you have the legal right to use, which you don't!

A google search using your keywords "heartbreak copyright-free images" leads to this link which does not display the image you used.

Moreover searching for free images on google with keywords, "free images" is not the best way of searching as it may display wrong images. It may, among others, display commercial stock photos which are given ''free'' for new paying customers and royalty-free images, that are strictly not "free to use" images in the legal sense. You need to use the tools button provided by google to search for free images.

You just wasting my time in these arguments.

Wasting time, Really?

 3 years ago 

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This is my google search and arguing on thumbnail image is really wasting time activity as the main thing of the article is the words not the thumbnail images

This is my google search and arguing on thumbnail image is really wasting time activity as the main thing of the article is the words not the thumbnail images

Your ignorance of the laws on copyright is patently shocking. You seem to think that misappropriating someone's image against their wish and putting it in a thumbnail is a insignificant thing and arguing about it is a waste of time. Well the law doesn't think so, for your information. It is you who is arguing against what the law provides clearly without any ambiguity.

In one of my earlier response I commented as follows:

Moreover searching for free images on google with keywords, "free images" is not the best way of searching as it may display wrong images. It may, among others, display commercial stock photos which are given ''free'' for new paying customers and royalty-free images, that are strictly not "free to use" images in the legal sense. You need to use the tools button provided by google to search for free images.

You don't seem to have understood one bit of it. Is it lack comprehension? Or is it self-assured hubris born of ignorance?

 3 years ago 

I also removed my thumbnail now this post will be shown without a thumbnail to avoid this time-wasting argument

Thank you. That is the safe thing to do when you lack comprehension.

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