Factors That Affect Marriage Relationship

It is not only love that keeps the relationship in marriage. If the two partners are not compatible to each other, it will be very difficult for them to thrive.

Power of Compatibility: mostly, every body believes that for marriage to thrive, the couple must love themselves. I begin to ask this question why there is still quarrel and fight among two lovers, sometimes separation and divorce. I took my time to research and observed that there is something that is missing in between the two parties - compatibility.

Let me give illustration with a printing machine (printer). If the ink cartridge inserted in a machine did not match it, even if it is the most original cartridge, the machine will not perform because it is not compatible with the cartridge. This is how it is in marriage, If the two parties believe that the love they have for each other is enough to live together without putting in mind that there are things that can come up and if there is no spirit of Compatibility in them they will find it difficult to thrive or live together as a couple.

Examples:
Physical factor: Everybody has its physical appearance and it is unique. The size of a couple, the complexion, the height, the step during movement etc. Some couples find it difficult to walk along the road together with their partners. I have seen a man who find it difficult to go out or walk out together with his wife. When asked why he did not like to go out with his wife, he said the wife did not have good step, and the wife did not even know about it. Some couples prefer a fair person to a dark person but they end up marrying a dark person, some like tall person, or fat person but at the end, they married the opposite.
In these issues compatibility will be a very big problem until the person involved appreciate and start putting into consideration on how to adapt to the situation.

Temperamental factor: In simple definition, it is a person normal manner of thinking, behaving or reacting. There are two types of temperament: extrovert and introvert. These two temperament have different behavior, thinking, reacting etc. The way they act towards any certain situation differ. Sometimes, there are mode swing due to the atmosphere of the environment at the moment.Dealing with an extrovert, there are some attitude to apply to have compatibility likewise the introvert, if not the partner will feel ignored or underrated.

Intellectual ability: this factor has a very big contribution towards compatibility relationship. As I interact with people, I begin to observed that there are many people that have low intelligent quotient - the inability to comprehend issues. Sometimes it is very frustrating to deal with such people. What about people that are highly intellectual, they have their own difficulties to follow.