Of course you have expressed your views very clearly. Streaky parents have very high expectations from their children and when their expectations are broken, they become more streaky, which is wrong. One should not put so much burden of one's desires on children that they have no desires of their own. Children are like wet soil, they should be watered with love. Yes, some strictness is necessary, but it is not necessary that there should always be strictness, it is wrong.
May you get success.