"Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health".
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What are the advantages and disadvantage of parents Strict Behavior
our parents are not always strict to us in all circumstances but there are few conditions were they have to be strict to make our life more punctual. they do all this for the betterment of our life because they have experience of their past and no how to handle and tackle it. but as the children are in their young age so the unable to understand the behaviour so sometime it is beneficial or sometime it has some disadvantages.
when parents are strict for the children they said the boundaries for their children and explain them what is good and what is bad for them and always stay in these boundaries. in this way the children developed the attributes of discipline and their life is well structured. this will be very helpful for them in the future when they have responsibilities of life and they can teach there children in a very effective and efficient way.
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it has been seen that when parents are not too much strict to their children, the children develop very bad habit of living in bad company it is very harmful for them. after developing all these bad attitude they did not be attention to their achievements so that's why strict behaviour is beneficial in some cases.
There are also certain disadvantages of strict behaviour of parents and children. and due to strict behaviour there is a huge conversation gap between the parents and children and due to this children unable to discuss the problem of their life with the parents and as a result their development the stress and also do blenders in the life. sometimes parent keep their behaviour strict with children in order to get more efficiency in their studies and life but in this way due to heavy but enough responsibilities and Chief mins the parents wants from the children the developed the stress in their mind that ifect there efficiency and productivity.
what do you feel if you were at the place of such children's who have to face strictness?
when it comes to the situation of feeling strict environment I am a very much have jewel of facing this kind of environment. but I have a mixed environmental in my life my father is very much strict to their children while at the same time my mother was not so much strict with us. so whenever my father strict was in certain conditions we always feel not good and always a frustrating for us but later on we understand that all that situation was in order to train us our life
but at the same time due to the supportive environment provided by our mother we feel good and we can share everything with our mother. children are so much upset if the stick in environment is provided to them without any consideration or seeing the results. but when it is due to our own mistake it is always a process of learning for all of us so the same process will happen to us to that's why was a very productive and learning situation for all the children's.
As a child what do you expect from your parents regarding their behavior
as a children I always put the moderate and mixed environment for for the children in their life. there must be some strict conditions so that children can learn how to live in strict environment. their must be some set boundaries for the children but one thing to be sure inside these boundaries the children should be free to discuss anything with the parents so there must be no discussion gap between them. their must be supportive environment from the parents towards their children.
What are the negative effects of emotional Blackmailing?
emotional blackmailing is always harmful for the society as well as for the individual himself. this always brings destructions in the society as well as in the minds of the people. in case of emotional blackmailing when one personal emotional blackmail someone, but as a result when he knows the real situation hey didn't believe on everyone in the future because that one person damage is trust.
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Emotional blackmailing always destroyed health environment at there it is between the friends or between the parents. if it is done by the parents with the children the children stuck the situation in their mind and feel stress and anxiety so there should be a moderate environment where we should avoid emotional blackmailing.
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Parents should avoid blackmailing with the children because this is why they not speak up for their self and can't do what they want parents do it just for their egos which is very harmfull for them and for the whole society I wish you best of luck for the challenge 😊
Los padres debemos establecer normas en nuestro hogar poner el límite a nuestros hijos y que ellos aprendan a cumplir las normas para que aprendan a ser adultos responsables pero como padres no debemos abusar de nuestro poder debemos tener una balanza ser equilibrados y permitir que el niño de sus propias opiniones en cuanto lo que siente así de esta manera el padre podrá inculcarle mejores valores