RE: The Legacy of Trauma: Does It Have the Potential to Shape Future Generations?
If a first born daughter has anger issues like her father, but of course when a trigger is met, can we say it's due to epigenetic?
I always think diabetes is a good example of epigenetic. The genes to cause it is always present in the body(if inherited by the parents), but it will cause any harm when a person lives in a bad environment with stress while eating processed food.
In short, a trigger is required in some cases.
I remember my mother recalling her first pregnancy bearing me, everything was going fine but during the last days her bp was high and they had to go for C-section, while all her other children had vaginal delivery.
She had traumas given by her in-laws and she told me about this a few years ago, a mother daughter talk
I was so ashamed yet so proud of her for bringing us in this world with traumas during her early marriage life.
You know what is the condition now? I have the same fears for my future as well.
I don't know if it is due to epigenetic or a talk she had with me🙂
First of all, I would like to address this concern of yours. Please don't think like this. It's okay to be fearful or have negative thoughts, but you can never limit yourself because of this fear. Why would you? Maybe your mom shouldn't have had this talk with you; I don't know. I think my mother shouldn't have had some talks with me either. We are naïve and fragile in front of our parents, but they are also human beings at the end of the day. However, I have resolved never to let my children bear the burden of my worries.
Please do not indulge in unnecessary worries and troubles. I hope and pray that you have a very fulfilling life ahead.
And also look at @bambuka's reply in comments
Hmmm
You're right. Worrying is not gonna bring any goodness.
Maybe when parents had enough burden they tend to share some with their children. I don't know if that is good or not, only a parent call tell.
But you know what, i just look at all such women who managed to survive and ignored the toxicity of the people they couldn't escape physically.
It's impossible to practice this kind of courage in this world today.
Ameen. Thank you Maan❣
I've seen it. He is such a calm and composed person. Always get serene vibes from his thought process,🤝