To my mother-in-law with love
Hello Everyone. I am @shiftitamanna
From #Bangladesh
Greeting my dear Steemian friends. Today I come to you to participate in a new competition. Shine with Steem community has organized a wonderful contest on mother in law topic I love this contest for which I am now starting to write my contest post to participate in this contest.
To tell the truth my relationship with my mother in law is sweet because my mother in law considers me like her own daughter and always looks after me. When my mother in law hears about my physical illness or any bad condition, she gets hurt and always advises me to do something good. Moreover, my mother-in-law prepares and sends my favorite food for me and tries to be by my side from afar in case of any problem. I am very impressed with her ritual use and I feel lucky to have such a mother-in-law.
On the other hand, I myself love my mother-in-law a lot because she takes care of me like my own mother. He understands my every privilege and always supports me in my every work by my side. Although he is staying away from me due to some reasons, he keeps in touch with me through mobile phone and gives me good advice in any work that I have developed a good relationship with him.
I am staying away from my mother in law due to my job. My in-laws are located in Khulna district of Bangladesh and I am living in capital city Dhaka due to job. Basically I am a government employee for which I involuntarily have to stay away from my mother-in-law. But the relief is that I have my husband with me. Although he sometimes goes back to Khulna for his work, he accompanies me most of the time.
But whenever I stay with my mother-in-law or whenever I visit Khulna, I have a wonderful experience with her because she is very sincere. He understands all my privileges and is there for me in any need. He grieved for my return to Dhaka and prayed for me. I am really happy with my mother-in-law because she is a very generous person.
I greeted my mother-in-law for the first time and exchanged pleasantries with her. I showed him enough respect and stopped him from doing what he disliked. I always tried to talk to him with a smile because he himself is a smiling person who always likes to be happy in any situation. So since I heard all these things about my mother in law from my husband I always talk to her with a smile which she likes a lot.
But let's say one thing and that is, it is very difficult to maintain a relationship with a person who finds the bad side of others. No person in the world is perfect but if we try to establish a relationship with the good side of the person, then it is definitely possible to establish a good relationship. In that case I am much happier because I have a mother-in-law like my mother who takes care of me like her own daughter.
In any relationship, the third person is often a bad influence. In that case, it can be seen in many families that hearing the lies of neighbors or neighbors creates chaos in that family. Although we humans can be the best creatures in creation, we cannot see the good in each other which is why most of the families are in turmoil due to the presence of this third person.
Suppose I was being slandered by a third person in the name of my mother-in-law and I listened to his words. In that case I will create a bad impression about my mother-in-law and I will create a conflict with her. Similarly, if a person says something bad about me directly in front of me, my mother-in-law might start thinking badly about me, which will alienate her from me.
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Hola, amiga gusto en saludarte!! gracias por compartir tu hermosa participación con nosotros y por participar en nuestra dinámica!! mucho éxito <3
Sungguh beruntung anda mendapatkan ibu mertua yang baik hati, namun tidak jarang juga punya mertua yang tidak akur dengan menantunya,
Saya tidak terlalu akrab dengan mertua saya itu semua saya hindari supaya hubungan kami baik-baik saja, tidak terlalu akrab bukan berarti kami berselisih paham,
Saya mencoba mengerti bagaimana sikap seseorang terhadap saya, jadi seperlunya saja apalagi saya selalu sibuk dengan pekerjaan saya setiap hari.
Pagi saya berangkat sekolah dan pulangnya sudah tengah hari, sampai di rumah saya pun pekerjaan sudah menunggu, dan terkadang saya tidak bisa beristirahat sama sekali.
Lanjut lagi kalau malam hari saya mengajar mengaji di rumah, setelah anak-anak pulang saya pun membuat postingan terkadang menyetrika.
Jadi kesimpulannya saya tidak sempat duduk santai apa lagi harus kerumah ibu mertua yang ada di depan rumah saya, karena Dia pun sibuk menggarap lahan garamnya yang agak jauh dari rumah, jadi sekali sekala kami bertemu terkadang saya hanya mengantarkan sedikit uang kalau kami sedang ada rezeki atau pun sedang gajian