Truth be told, if not for mum and dad anybody would have known us, and then helping others to shine do not dim our own light, so keep helping others. Helping other will make your impact to much and many people that are successful through will be grateful for your existence even they don't show directly or even be kind to you. Life is not about competiting with anybody because we all have our unique talent God has bless us with. Knowing this will give you peace of mind and you will not see others as your rivals. Thank you so much for this insight, and wisdom