How it feels to work hard but not get what I want

Are there any rewards for payment? When you were dedicated to one thing and failed in the end, how did you feel?

How hopeful it was to do this in the beginning, then how much of a disappointment in the end. Sometimes, it hurts more than not having it before, which is declared a failure at the time of getting it.

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What's that feeling like?

You work hard to get your boss to respect you and get you promoted. Your boss tells you that as long as you do a good job of this plan, promotions and raises won't be a problem. The key depends on your current performance.

So you do your best, working overtime to catch up on the draft, only to have this plan appreciated by the boss. Because you are hopeful, images of your promotion flash across your mind, when you are tired, think about your future position, and when you are tired, look back and see why you have worked so hard for so long.

There may be hardships and ups and downs along the way, the mentality will fluctuate, and negative emotions will go away when you think about the results of doing a good job of your plan. In the end, everything is ready, success is within reach, and you are filled with joy and excitement, thinking that it is all worth it.

But ah, at the last moment, your plans couldn't be found, and the backup on the computer was lost. Your mood slumps, like falling from a cloud into a deep abyss.

At the end of the meeting, you are nervous because you can't make plans, but your partner comes up with a plan just like yours, and finally he gets a chance to get promoted. Not only were you not getting promoted, you were also being promoted by your boss.

If the rules of the game are like this: make it through a hundred levels and you are the winner. You continue to reach level 99, but you fall to the last step. The referee declares that you have failed the game and you must either leave the game or go back to square one.

But reality is not a game. The game failed. The 99-step experience can be considered a beautiful process to enjoy. But often what we struggle with is not the result of the success of the last steps?

Compared to what you did not initially have, you have experienced a cycle of strengths, hopes and disappointments, and the power the process has given you even more. It grinds you, but always a bearer of no reward to bring it.

This is truly a contradiction. You've worked hard but can't come back. Then you will eventually gain valuable experience from the hard work. However, you only want the end result.

It's like a two-point connection. From the starting point, you go straight to the goal, but the reality says that you don't have to think about the result, but you should enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way.

So, how does it feel to work hard but get no reply? The feelings are very contradictory.

We never know when to fail. We just know that we have to do our best to do what we want to do. Once we do, we have to do well and succeed. But failure always comes accidentally. Not. Will greet you and always give us unexpected blows.

Everyone will face failure, but everyone has their own ideas and ways of dealing with failure.

I think everyone's lifestyle and how to deal with failure will be different, but they will face it with courage. Over time, emotions will slowly return to common sense. In your future, there will be a lot of Success.