PARENTS CLUB CONTEST -04

Hello everyone the topic of this contest is an interesting one in that we are in a generation where many young ones are left uncared for hence many have made deadly mistakes thus its very important we look into what its means to be a parent, from my point of view;

 parents  are the human medium by which 
 another unique personality is birthed into 
 this  world. 

Even with the break through in medical science where incubators are employed a human being is needed for the process to be complete thus every individual deserves the love and care of there parents.
Parenting is not all about paying the bills of ones child /children neither is providing food and shelter its building a life of love where our children can feel loved not thinking o may be mum and dad loves me they should know for our:
*Conduct
*Body language
*Ability to trust them
*Standing with them even when all hell breaks
loose
Its a proven fact that kids remember more what they see than what they hear hence as a good parent we must endeavor to be that hero that our wards can look up to and feel loved when they are around us hence its important they know that they are loved not as a show of duty but because they are our priceless treasure.

Our kids should not be made to feel like a burden when ever they are with us for instance during the first phase of the covid 19 lock down in Nigeria some parents were complaining about the closure of schools owning to the challenge of having their kids at home 24/7 for months there by creating a bad impression in the child's mind thus our body language should speak love not liability and to achieve that we must make time for our kids and grant them audience always because once they feel neglected their peers will become their teacher and confidant.

I believe one of the best traits of an ideal parent is been able to stand with ones child even when everyone leaves that will be a memorial to that child of his/her parents love and it will make that child to strive to keep that trust at all cost and by so doing a chain reaction of love is activated that will affect the world