I think it's pointless and useless to think about what other people will think of you. Don't worry about that. Things happen in life and whatever decision you make shouldn't be affected by other people.

As for your question, I'm sorry I have no idea to be honest. I dont even know how to withdraw my own steem dollars lol. But i recommend googling it, and go on youtube, you will find lots of information on steemit there!