Teach your children how to be strong and less dependent
Self-Reliance is important for children. Learning to be self-reliant is important to be taught when a child is at a young age so it can develop, as they grow older. Being self-reliant is presented to be the ability to take control over your life, being motivated from within, and being able to take care of yourself.
As they grow, make learning life skills a natural part of everyday activities. This makes them feel better about themselves and cuts down on the tantrums.
The first skill children need to learn is being responsible for their actions. We need to recognize that young children don’t yet realize that everybody makes mistakes, so in order to save face with their parents, children will blame others for messes they make or a bad mark they received in school. We have to connect the dots for them without making them feel inadequate.