I love this! I can relate so much. I'm admittedly a people pleaser and peace maker. My fiance and I work at the same place and on occasion I'll be able to take the day off while he goes into work. Several times I've caught myself being excited about a "me day" but instead spending it doing things like cleaning the house and cooking. The last "me day" I took, I went shopping all day. I went to maybe 10 different stores just to window shop. It doesn't seem like much but that alone time to just freely take my time shopping put me in a better mood the entire rest of the week.