I'm so glad I could 'give back' the term to you @lymepoet! I've noticed people who care about us like using the term, because it can be so much easier to ask 'how many spoons do you have left?', than to try to understand what we mean when we say our bodies are sore, we're tired... I hope some people around you are willing to read it.

Yes, we need to plan ahead more, not just days, but also the whole week - 'that day is heavy so I calculate resting days two days after that one'. It's okay and as long as we indeed stay within our limits we can still do awesome stuff and have a lot of fun. It's a constant finetuning though :D