Interesting to hear how it can be unexpressed sadness. Can't think why Esteban would be sad? Perhaps because he is not the centre of attention any more with a little sister now? He certainly seems to spend a lot of time fussing about her not touching his stuff!

Thanks for the probiotic tip. Coconuts are not so easy to get our hands on here in France as they were in Bali but where there is a will there is a way ;)