My first Post as a Clinical Psychologist on Steemit..
Message from my heart to my unmarried friends!!
There are three things that are destructive that many of us have been told before but still find it difficult to adhere to. After a period of counselling many married and unmarried people I wish to state them again because they are the root cause of many years of pain people are suffering today. Many suffering today wish they listened. They are as follows;
- Avoid pre-marital sex from today, it is destructive. Don't avoid it because it is sin against God but avoid it because it has the ability to complicate your life in many ways physically, emotionally and spiritually. Don't let few minutes of excitement complicate the rest of your life. It takes determination. It is not the norm in our age. It is challenging but you will realize it is worth it.
- Be bold to move away quickly from a partner who is not God-fearing. A partner who does not regard God will not regard you in the long run. A partner who does not regard God will not stay committed when the difficulties arise in life. A partner that does not respect God will not respect you.
- Don't marry a person who is not fully committed and ready to marry you. Don't trap or force anyone into marriage no matter what material things he or she has. Marriage is a journey of commitment and anyone not committed cannot finish that journey.
These three things have destroyed many. It does not matter how strong or weak your Christian life is, these things are destructive. Practicing these things are for your own good. It is not for God, your pastor, your parents or anyone, it is for your own good. Many today wished they practiced these when they were first advised. For them it is too late but for you it isn't and you are capable of doing it if you so decide. This is about your own life. Had I known is always at last. Take action today.