Seems like you have been under a lot of stress, and thus frustrated.

Not sure you should blame bamboo for it though...

I wrote a long, detailed post about bamboo a few hours ago. I think maybe someday you may re-evaluate your judgement.

Yes bamboo does spread and is self-reproducing after it's cut, unless you get the roots. But it also produces oxygen and adsorbs carbon dioxide. The best solution might be to hire someone to come in and dig out the bamboo, including the roots. Cheaper than buying another house I think.

Blame development and people who plant it in residential areas, not the bamboo.

But good luck in your battle.