You Want To Come In My Life, The Door Is Open. Some Words On Friendship & Steemians !

in #friendship7 years ago (edited)
"You want to come in my life, the door is open, You  want to get out of my life, the door is open. Just one little request. Please don’t stand in the door, You are blocking the traffic."  
 

Today's thoughts on friendship 

Sometimes it's not easy to nurture and hold on to superficial and complicated friendships. You might find yourself to let go of some old ones to make place for new ones or just for yourself.

People change over the years. We change! Our priorities are shifting. 

There comes a time when you know that too many compromises don't work anymore. 

In older age, your expectations are so much higher because you know well that time is running out and it doesn't make sense to surround yourself with people who misjudge you, cannot understand nor accept you for who you are. 

There is no reason to hold on. 

 

I am thankful for my soulmates and loyal ones and cherish them more than ever. 

I wish all others a wonderful life! You as well as me, deserve to be cared for and loved! 

Hello "Old " & New Steemians, my so called incredibly,joyful, future and present online friends, I value more than I could ever imagine that I would. 

I come from a generation where you had to make friends in real life only, to build up a deep connection and for many years since the internet is present, I hesitated to trust in online relations but steemit obviously changed my view drastically. 

Friendster was first, Space followed and what happened after Facebook, we all know but I was still suspicious most of the time. 

Something feels very different with YOU "Steemit People" and the Cryptoworld, I am fascinated with, compared to all those other social networks. I always felt more home in the "Underground". Mainstream stuff was never my kind of taste. 

I trust most Steemians because I read their honest stories about their lives, art and awesome projects and @connecteconomy's previous soulful article " The Stories I Know About You Humans of Steemit Now", proved me even more that we are all lovable "HUMANS".

It feels good to be a part of this community, the "Soulchain" and I sincerly do hope that it will last for many years to come. 

I enjoy voting for your contributions, mostly manually and wish I would not drain my voting power that fast. 

Faces to Steemit Icons are priceless!

I am so happy to know all of you, especially the ones I met at both @steemfest's in Amsterdam and Lisbon. I missed the ones who could not make it this year but what joy to meet some of you again. Slowly but surly Steemit will grow and new deepened friendships and their respectful projects develop. 

I am amazed every day about your comments. My last post made it up to 123! Wow! 

Keep it up and have a wonderful weekend! Don't ever get frustrated and let go of the Drama.

My next post will show pictures of everybody I met in Lisbon. Here is a preview  

Yours Mammasitta who needs urgently a nice footer! Who could help me? 

Keep on spreading the MassiVe Vibes and also follow @massivevibration....ssss

Feel free to join my steemit chat channels at "mammasittas, austria, massivevibrations and baliohbali " to post your links. Follow also on Twitter #steemitvibes 

Supporting @welovesteemit and @qsounds 



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Envious of those who got a chance to meet you. I have never but I feel like your soul is heavy with love and peace. Your trying to help as much people as you can here tells quite a lot. I will wait patiently on the line of who those who would love to meet you because I am so sure I ain't alone... For now please understand that your soul is wealth :)

Love from Africa ❤

You are a queen of soulful words and you have no idea how happy you just made me. My door is open......and you came in ....The Land, Mother Africa heard My soul speak. It’s so nice to meet you here in this new virtual way. I can feel you “Sister” . I also thank you with a song I like so much :

Aaaaaawwwww! Such a powerful song to say thank you. I am in tears... See you when our tomorrow gets here gorgeous :)

I love African music since I was on tour with Femi Kuti

Femi Kuti? You was on tour with a legend!!!

Its really sad that we break so many friendships in our life journey, steemit atm is attracting a good crowd but its slowly breaking @mammasitta

So True ! So sad that I met so many and so few are left but at least they are loyal and real!

Yes friendship, when you really need one, the ones not there, are not. Mine and her "friends" were not there for my wife, when I needed to be away for 10 days in the hospital. It is during times like that, when you know who is friends are and who is not. A good person helped my wife and myself, we did not really know him, he was the guy that re-did our driveway, and he had a snow plow business for the winter. He plowed my driveway while I was gone and after I returned with-out charge. A good person, better than our so called close friends.

The reason people flock to and stay flocked @mammasitta, is because you remind us we are human and keep us grounded in our humanity. This was a very nice post. Thank you.

You are a treasure to all who are fortunate to cross paths with you and be part of your smile. I wish we had enough time at SteemFest to tell life stories to better understand and appreciate each other, and yet I feel I must know some of it by default through seeing the current result. You make me smile. :)

Youuuuuuu made me smile even more my sweet new friend! We have a lifetime on steemit to get to know each other better and better. Distance cannot change that! More Mozartkugeln will be stacked up in my luggage to the next @steemfest because when you hand out chocolates you give LOVE with it.

There is such a great movie with Jonny Depp.


I need to watch this! Thanks for the recommendation.

Watch it together with your wife but get her some chocolates first :) Its one of the sweetest love movies I know and a good new topic for another post:) Have a great weekend

Oh I loved that movie, too! :)

Chocolates can do the magic :)

I always love to read from you you do not post here too much but when you post here you write your post from the very core of your heart.

I can’t believe how much kindness and 🌺💕🐬 I get here in this platform. It feels good!

You want to come in my life, the door is open, You want to get out of my life, the door is open. Just one little request. Please don’t stand in the door, You are blocking the traffic.

I love that saying, haven't thought about it for years

I to come from a time of real friendships and relationships, heck I come from when Penpals and snail mail was the only sort of long term relationships LOL

I do find there is something so special with the Steemit Communityand have found forming more special bonds with people on here than I ever have with any other social platform

Hahahaaaa You made me laugh out loud! I know what you mean too well. We had to work hard on our sincere relations. Old school style ....Right?
I am bonding with you for the last comments you write. Hello Helloooooo!!!!

This quote got me started and when I saw this amazing gif image I knew I got a new article.

I loved that gif was awesome
I have never done gifs but this one got me thinking to explore this possibility

May be fun to try even if I don’t make anything good

I found that gif and used their original link. I never tried one myself to be honest. I don't know how, yet :) too much already on my laptop to play around but never too late to learn.

I understand the concept to make the one I want thevteick is to get the right series of photos to get the motion

Also not sure if you have been on Discord I sent a massage Re the banner

Better to catch me in steemit chat but I will look at discord tomorrow

Ohh ok I can send via Steem chat later when I get on the pc

I think life is both about moving forward and letting go. There are only few people who will keep hanging on for longer periods of time and these are the ones you should cherish.

I only have about three, four real friends whom I know I can count on no matter what. In shit times, I know who to call. And those are the ones who matter most.

That’s very true and I can count just a tiny few of those but the older I get the more I realize that I am my own best friend and I can have a hell of a great time with myself and some hash brownies ( hahah oh well not that often )

Ofcourse you have to be your own best friend first - however, I love sharing things and experiences so I guess I would be less out-ey on my own.

Your open heart to all is just so unique. I'm glad to have met you

You are so charming and heartwarming! Thank you so so much for feeling my sincere message of kindness even though I can be quite a dragon if somebody gets me really upset 🤣😜😝🌺

Everyone has a dragon chained inside of them. All we can do is to tame it

That’s the trick we need to learn how

It's true, sometimes friends who bring destruction for us, when we are a lot of money then there will be many friends who get, there is also a friend who really friend when we fall he who helped us, but the right is the closest family that always support we are either happy or hard. the most important family to keep us in the sick, if friends are still thinking-think first

You speak my mind. I had to learn hard lessons in recent times, loosing more than I ever dreamed of. I did not loose myself though. I saw so well who was next to me "holding my hands, supporting me, accepting my emotional imbalance and who ran away as fast as they could when I spoke up what I would need for a change.

Hey mam you are awesome I would like to always be your best friend because according to me it my experience no relation is better than friendship @mammasitta

So much 💕💕💕

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