Look , I get it. I'm a cynic by nature myself. But, a few years ago, I started asking, what's the best that could happen, and taking time to be grateful for everything in my life, when I remember. We only hurt ourselves when we do that. We lose the one thing we want, companionship, because we become people no one wants to associate with. It's just as honest to look on the bright side. Every shadow is caused by a light.