Ahhh... the amount of "If only" I have dealt with in my life. I have to really fight my way out of those thoughts sometimes, although I think I'm getting better with age. :)
The truth is that we never know at the time what is the right decision - and really, there is no right or wrong. there just is. In hindsight, a decision we made might seem wrong - but we have no way of knowing what really would have happened if we had made a different choice at the time.
Ahhh... the amount of "If only" I have dealt with in my life. I have to really fight my way out of those thoughts sometimes, although I think I'm getting better with age. :)
The truth is that we never know at the time what is the right decision - and really, there is no right or wrong. there just is. In hindsight, a decision we made might seem wrong - but we have no way of knowing what really would have happened if we had made a different choice at the time.