Some "traps" can be safe havens. Like marriage. LOL! The ol' ball and chain is not the prison some make it out to be... but I digress, as always. :)

At least you're not like the "kept woman," the mistress of the married man. Now I'm thinking of ants and aphids, but it's your fault: YOU used the word "trap," in jest, and I trust you always know I'm jesting too!