Been dumped by a girl you loved but she was just a friend and you were never official?
Move on my little kuya, you will tie your self in knots as it eats you inside and you will never let go.
Get out there, its the Philippines, it's the home of gorgeous girls..they are everywhere!!
Go out this weekend, down 10 bottles of San Mig and hit on everything with a pulse. You need to get out of this stasis and look forward, not constantly giving it the big 'what if'.....
Imagine if you take old Nathens advice and meet the girl of your dreams whilst pissed as newt and then eventually get the happy ever after....
'What ifs' are much better applied to the future than to the past mate :-)

(Thank me later and have a beer for me too!)