I wonder if a charity group would take this on as a project? My aunt collected day-old breads and pastries from the grocery stores in her town and donated it to her church (and other churches too) who offered free lunches for anyone hungry. There were 5 churches and each one had a day of the week where they offered a free meal. But if no one collects the food, and if there is no place to take it, the wedding hosts don't have much choice. Very sad.