The way I see it, the "love yourself as you are" agenda is screwing with the future of humanity. Men and women should be doing their best to look their best, to get the best mate. Not because they are more beautiful, but more healthy. And free will - a fat person raising a child with the attitude "love yourself even though you are mediocre" is so much crappier than the attitude of a person that hits the gym telling their child "be the best that you can be." I'm starting to ramble. I can feel your sharp eyes flashing in my direction, I'd better stop here.