Thanks for you opinions, @mrchef111 and @limabeing!
I believe there’s no right or wrong for being a gentlemen. I don’t like it from a perspective of “a man trying to please a particular woman” but I do appreciate it from a point of “being polite equally towards everyone”. And I definitely think that behind every action should be not only a strong respect but an understanding of a feministic agenda and how those actions may or may not be perceived