Aggreeeed its so so so sad that in so many societies (see almost all of them) a womans life success is supposedly detrimental to her ability to find a loving and equal partner.. I am 37 and have been exploring this world. Have I found the right person? Maybe a few times but we fudged it up.. one of them might come back to me when the time is right ahaha. there is a thing called MGTOW = men going their own way and its sort of laughable. Sisters been "doin for themselves" for a while now. We don't need you to come our way. This is a chance to go beyond superficial life and love. But what is important is that we also don't fall into superficial relationship traps. I always do date splits but sometimes its hard cuz people have told me, if a man buys you x-- he loves you. But thats old trash. We have our own opportunity to form our own healthy love with our partners be it man or woman or genderfluid amazing human.

I love this!! let me know if anyone of you want to join #teamgirlpowa we have a channel call African Women United led by @seyiodus I dont know if shes as radical as yall but i am looking forward to seeing where yall could go with something like this!!

p.s. yes im a white american and i try not to meddle but just give space and respect :P