It's funny I never really consider whether or not I am or am not a feminist. But, in many ways, I never let my being a woman really come into consideration before I choose to do a thing, so I think that might be feminist? What I don't like is when it becomes like an 'excluding group' that we are meant to belong to and if we don't we aren't being good women, if that makes any sense.
I can happily build a fence or wear a pretty dress and in either case I just do it because I am drawn to it and gender never comes into it. I hope that could be the way of the future, in that our equality is such that we need not consider it at all, we just 'are' :)