It's in hell you decide.

in #fathers-rights7 years ago (edited)

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Whoa does this happen?
I fell in love with a beautiful lady, who after getting her two children out of me, quickly kicked me out and started demanding child support.

What the?
I was seeing my very young kids everyday day, until one day when I went to get them, I found a tenant in her house. She had picked up and moved to another city with the children. Since we had no official agreement, there was nothing I could do.

It gets worse.
I get a knock on the door and a bailiff presents me with a court summons in the next few weeks. It stated that she wanted to finalize custody (as me being the twice a month babysitter) and to legalize support payments.

Right in the teeth!
When my lawyer called her lawyer to explain that this was done behind my back without my notice or consent, the response was: Now the plaintiff alleges sexual assault, that I do drugs in front of the kids, I don’t pay for anything, and I am a horrible unloving father. All false and disgusting scummy lies from hell.

Ah the dark bleakness of fear and suffering.
I understand the despair and distress of having your beautiful children taken from you, having no idea what will happen. It is hell.

It’s in hell you decide.
You can disengage. Cut off your right and left arm, let her deal with the consequences of her disgusting selfish actions, let the kids find out for themselves the brutality of her control, because they in time will hate her for it, and spare yourself financial ruin.
Or you can FIGHT.
In the darkness of jail you can build muscle, will, and knowledge. You can focus yourself into a sword of righteous power, you can abandon your financial security, face the threat of poverty and defeat, and decide to stand up and NEVER QUIT.

There is no more nobler of a cause than to fight for the right of your children to have a father- you! It’s greater that just you. The world needs you to keep it from decaying into an abyss of selfish and careless mothers who breed fatherless children doomed to disobedience and violence.

Peace: The Silent Killer
if you think all is well and you haven’t gone through the legal requirements to protect your right as a father- beware! For it will soon turn, and quickly, when you are not expecting it.

Lessons learned the hard way.
If you have a child and the mother suddenly doesn’t want to be with you:
Immediately file a court motion- right away. State that you want joint custody as soon as possible, even though the child is still a baby. Put it in writing with the courts that you want joint custody and you are willing to do anything to maintain that right, even if it’s not going to happen right away. Start taking the kids overnight. So important! I was seeing my kids every day, but because the was no overnights yet, she was able to pick up and move.

Record your conversations with the lawyer and take notes and have them sign it. Why?
The alleged sexual assault was a verbal conversation between lawyers and conveyed to me. However it is not in her affidavit and so it does not have any bearing in court. It was just used to try and scare me off. It was untrue and I would have loved to use that against her in court to prove she is a nasty lair. But I can’t.

Take the Red Pill Now.
Men don’t be deceived, there are good women out there. But your chances of landing one are slimmer than you think. Watch a few MGTOW videos to see where I am coming from. We live in an age where women can get away with the most hideous acts of violence against their own children. Don’t let them deceive you.

Oh the anger:
“I sense anger in you, but you must use it, focus it”
For the depressed, defeated, unmotivated man, anger is a gift. Let it drive you.

The Father of Fathers.
There is a Father that designed fatherhood, the concept and the reason for it. This Father is more concerned about you being a father than you will ever know. Trust Him that he will fight for you and for your justice and for your children. Ask Him to fight for you and your kids.

Fighting points In court:
Keep it about them, not about you or her.

  1. Your children deserve a father! Not a weekend fun dad, or babysitter, a real father that brings them up. It is just as important as a mother!
  2. Her alienating you from your children is child abuse! Demand the court to stop your children from senseless suffering.
  3. You are a good father and love your kids and want to father them properly.
    Do what you need to do to show that you are that person and have the capability.

Going to court soon! I will post my outcome.

Don’t turn away, STAND IN FRONT

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Thanks for sharing this. I hope you will continue to fight for your children, you deserve it!

Keep fighting! Its Not easy but it's worth it

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