The consequences in life Juan for spending his childhood with social service

In my previous post I told you in broad strokes how the childhood of one of my friends went with social service and the process so that his grandparents could take care of him, spending so many years in intensive care due to a congenital disease. All these situations generated in my friend many consequences in his life, currently are somewhat worrisome.

At the beginning of his 17 years, he attended churches for a limited time, these churches were of different religions, clearly this with the need to get a safe harbor to turn to, to feel that he belongs to something and that these provide affection or at least company on an emotional level. He spent approximately 8 months attending every afternoon at the Catholic Church and noticing that this did not fill his emotional void, he went to the evangelical church, in the latter did not spend much time.

Then, I joined several political parties looking exactly the same, filling their emotional and even existential voids, the political parties where I had an active life had youth groups that were dedicated to doing social work and my friend because to stay together and have ownership over something, He was also constantly attending all the events held, as well as joining about four different political parties and not much time remaining.

Months later, I stopped attending university, I was barely in the first year, although I insisted many times to return and continue his studies, I even told him to enroll in another career if he did not like it, take him to look for the curriculum and careers offered in other universities, after so much insistence this is enrolled in the degree in education, but likewise did not spend much time attending.

When his mother died, he found a job for him, he was the operating person of a hospital in our region, his job was to provide services for medicines, that is, to take boxes from one side to the other, and several opportunities changed it. area of ​​work because he said he was not comfortable with his colleagues, and spent a couple of years and he stopped working, without any explanation or valid justification, simply stopped attending and effectively began their economic problems.

At the same time that their economic problems began, it was constantly disappearing and in view of that, I proposed that you work with me as my assistant, so four months passed and to be honest I was responsible, I followed the instructions and arrived at the time, without However, a client once gave the payment to him and he took part of the money and I did not consult him, trusting him to assume that he had lost the remaining money, so I gave him the same payment. One of her relatives left a player in her house, one day that we kindly went all to accompany him to his home to minimize the time he was alone.

A week later said family member went to her home to look for the object and she does not know where she is, she gets very upset and accuses him of having stolen it, to be honest at this time she still trusted in her innocence, even though it was the Second time something was disappearing in his hands. I distanced myself from him to avoid some misunderstanding or to take back something that belonged to me, months later he came to my house to ask me a favor, I saw something uneasy emotionally worried and he told me to lend him $ 500 that one of his friends He had accused him of stealing them.

When he asked me for it, I wanted to get more information and I did not refuse to do it, although I was going to return them if I had stopped studying, and most likely I was doing illegal acts to eat, right there when I start to see him constantly. I realize that he has some signs of people who use drugs, his lips were purple, his skin was dull, he had lost weight considerably and in many moments he was disturbed without apparent stimulation.

A few days later I go to his home and to my surprise I see him using drugs in the company of the people he had been seeing, that day because he confirmed that Juan had been responsible for the money lost and the article also, of course he needed to have money to be able to consume and stop going to work began to steal what he could, even objects such as appliances in your home, sold them to buy drugs, it is the only action performed, I realized I stopped eating or did it periodically because I was too thin.

After realizing that it was what I was doing, I took him to a rehabilitation center for addicts but it was only the day I went with him and nothing else, every day that passes I see how his life is really going off as he continues stealing, he has stopped eat and is sick, he has no one to help him and not get out of that hole and those diseases he suffers.

When he spent all his childhood in the custody of social service and lost his adoptive parents at a very young age, he remained alone in the world when he was a minor and that the social service was not following up on his case to put him back in a loving family and make periodic psychological evaluations, has marked the future full of regrets Juan, because currently most likely to end up in jail or die.