WHAT HAPPENED TO MARRIAGE AND FAMILY.

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We are gradually forgetting about families in recent years. This is in particular or obvious in Western/ Developed countries like the USA, Canada, UK, Australia etc.

There were times when families were the pillar of our society. Everything was centered on family and as a result, people tend to have a high moral standard. Men respected woman and vice versa. Marriage was sacred and children were raised in a complete family.

Millennium came and things dramatically changed. In pursuit of selfish life and unreasonable competitions, women thought its wise or even heroic to have kids and build families without Dad or Husband. In so doing they destroyed the only thing that holds our society together.

Before getting pregnant or even having a kid or children out of wedlock was a taboo. People respects sex and women were treated with much respect. Today marriage has been forgotten and seen as alien engagement. Majority of our women believes in single parenthood.

I’m totally abhorred with this new trend. This outrageous and inhumane attitude towards kids. Mothers no longer care about their children or their well-being. Raising a child alone as a mother is difficult no matter how rich you are. The issue is not money rather bond with father or having a complete family.

When your child is raised by a single mum, that child will grow up as half orphan because the absence of Dad/husband in a family will always affect that child psychologically. You see, Dad will teach you how to ride bicycle, fishing and scold you when necessary. Dad seems to be obeyed or perhaps more respect than mum.

When Dad is involved or around a child will be more behaved. I guess our deliberate single mum’s don’t care. What a man can do a woman do it better. – they said. Is that really a good slogan when it comes to raising a child? Do this mum really cares about their child or children? Is it fair to the kids to be born by a deliberate single mum?.

Just look at the Black community in America. In absent of culture and fatherhood, children became monsters, robbers and gang member. Education will be denied and love is thrown out and as a result, we have disorganized homes.

Please women. Single parenthood is hurting us kids. We aren’t complete without Dad. We need a complete family and without Dad, we are vicariously incomplete. No amount of wealth, toys or family friends will solve that. A family is meaningless without Dad. Please help us.