Separation & Annulment...will never be an option if (Part 2 of 2)

Separation & Annulment...will never be an option if (Part 2 of 2)

3) FLAT IRON – REFLECTION

Sometimes because wives are so busy with the kids or with work, their tendency is to give less importance to some simple tasks at home like pressing their husband’s long sleeves or uniform, thus this reflects how they take care of their husband. Wives should bear in mind that proper pressing of their husband’s clothing is a must and little did they know they can use it to warn their husband if they will only do it properly .....

Wife: Honey/Babe if you noticed I pressed your long sleeves and uniform in such a way that you will feel as if the collars are like blades, blades that will slash the lips of whoever will try to put lipstick mark on it.

Husband should not throw harsh comments if they are experiencing this as some women are sensitive, why not try this if your long sleeves or uniform is not being pressed properly you can just crack a joke to your wife , “Honey/Babe can you please press my long sleeves and uniform in such a way that I will feel as if my collars are like blades, blades that will slash the lips of whoever will try to put lipstick mark on it, men are helpless sometimes and we need some protection against temptation.” Women wants a funny man or “Honey/Babe you know how much I love you and I don’t want any one making fun of me or teasing me as if you are not taking good care of me because of the way my long sleeves and uniform is being pressed, is there anything wrong with our flat iron I am sure it is our flat iron.” Then kiss your wife on the forehead to make it appear you are very loving as some women are very sensitive.

It is very important how you say things and how you make each other understand your point as it may turn into a fight if you will not care.

4) DINING TABLE – EAT YOUR WORDS, SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE

Dining table is not just used for eating your breakfast, lunch and dinner but a place where you can settle the unsettled issues that may eventually break up your relationship. Every morning even before or while eating your breakfast, try to check if your relationship is still intact and both are still happy being together. Wife or husband can ask “how’s my hubby today”, “how’s my wife today” this is one way of checking if either have some issues that you need to discuss later in the day as both or one might have to go to work and if there is, try to spit it out after taking your wonderful dinner and have cleaned the dishes and the table try doing it together then after that sit down and discuss. Do not talk right away when you are full just like when you are eating “don’t talk while your mouth is full” does it ring a bell? When you are full in this instance......meaning: full of hatred, jealousy, ill feelings or any other negative feelings....take a deep breath and drink first. Always remember that the goal is to always win each other at the end of the discussion meaning you are both required to eat his/her words and swallow his/her pride. There is no harm in admitting one’s shortcomings and mistakes in fact it can make you a better person, you will not learn if you will not admit you are wrong as if in your mind you are right then there is nothing to be corrected. Always bear in mind that it is forbidden to go to your room and lay in bed without settling your issues, always try to compromise.

(Source: Fishpool Furniure)

5) BEDROOM – SANCTUARY

This is not the right place to discuss your issues and misunderstanding, not even before going to bed. You must see your bed room as a sacred place ....free from negative vibrations.

6) Music Player – merely saying the words are not enough

What we feel, how we feel if we can’t tell, we can express them by playing music. Sometimes, merely saying sweet words are not enough to have a romantic ambiance. With the proper lighting, a nice kind of music your home can turn up into a cozy ambiance.

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