Teen Mom

Hello Steemian friends, if you read my previous post you will have realized that I am a teen mom, and I will tell you how my experience has been

I really became a mother when I was 16 years old, when getting pregnant for me was not easy, how young is it? It was a radical change to my life, but I faced it with the responsibility and courage that the situation required, at the beginning many people judged me, criticized me, branded me many derogatory things, and there were a lot of ridicule, for my parents it was not easy either knowing that her first daughter, for her eyes, was still "her baby" became pregnant, but for my luck they supported me in everything and still do it, they were my biggest support, I supported them and I did not allow them to multiply bad comments will affect me or my baby, after the second trimester I enjoyed it to the fullest, I could already feel that immense love of feeling a life inside of me, my happiness to bring my princess to the world was so much that I needed to celebrate it

March 24, 2017, at 11:20, weighing 3,200kg and measuring 50cm was born the girl who came to fill my life with Light and joy, my daughter named Lucia, since that day my life has changed completely, since that day I left to think of me so that everything is her

Day by day I was learning to be a mom, giving the best of me, being a mother, changing my life, my way of thinking, giving my whole heart and giving my strength every day to get ahead and be a successful person for her, because it's my motive to achieve my goals and give it my best

The happiness that it feels to have her in my arms, to kiss her, to hold her and to look me in the eye with that love so pure that a baby can give me filled me with strength

I needed to finish my school because I never left my studies, I was already in my last year, in the year of my graduation, when I turned 3 months old my baby went back to school, it was very difficult since since my daughter was born I give her exclusive breastfeeding , the first months as usual babies sleep very little and I had to go to classes without sleeping and when I arrived I came to attend with much love and devotion, while it was full of evaluations and a week before my thesis "final test for graduate" my mother who was guiding me in this way of being a mother even though she worked for that time, had a burn accident of 3rd and 2nd grades in most of the body, for me it was very difficult to deal with my daughter so small , to think about my mother in such a difficult situation, to take care of my house because I have always lived with my parents, and to help my mother to take care of my 2 younger sisters and having to attend classes and have my final test and few days, it was impossible to sleep, with multiple occupations, for my luck the father of my daughter was always supporting me taking care of my daughter while I attended classes. Thank God and the reason to fill with pride my mother to leave the hospital as soon as possible and have her at home to take care of her and fill her with ease and the specialist in that is our princess Lucia, before all this happened I was able to obtain the higher score and I managed to get the highest of the grades, I graduated being mother of a 4 month old baby then.

Many people say that being a mother at an early age, youth is lost, that is a big mistake and that life is damaged, for me, my daughter is the best blessing that could have happened to me, and youth is not lost, Parties are lost but it is true but not youth, I am still young but with a daughter, with whom I can enjoy my life because she makes me happy, in the future I will grow and I will continue to be young and there I will be able to enjoy all those parties that People speak but with maturity and responsibility.

Life goes on and you should always have your head held high because in my point of view I feel brave to have assumed my responsibility for acts with the greatest of maturity because being a mother is not an easy task at all but of which I learn every day and it fills me with happiness to have my daughter, to see her grow and fill her with love.

The love of a mother towards a child is a pure, unconditional, unique, magical love, and only those who have the fortune of being mothers feel it!