Intolerance compared to gossip is hard to endure and accept because the person who imposes his opinion on another family member cannot apologize for his behavior. He does not understand that his opinion is not the only right one and that he should not accept it with himself. By the way, what to do if your brother has anger issues (like here is told https://ladyimpeccable.com/what-to-do-if-your-brother-has-anger-issues/) and he doesn't counter it? Why can't he snap at his friends, at himself? Why does he try to snap at his mother? Because she forgives her child and can't do otherwise? But I think I'm still tryna to figure this crap out.