Faery Friday March 6, 2020

It's Friday and I'm really glad about that. This weekend I'm hoping to enjoy a calm weekend. The weather is beautiful here in Colorado and I am looking forward to being outside a bit.

For today’s card pull, I am using the Faeries’ Oracle by Brian Froud with text by Jessica Macbeth. This is a single card pull since it is an oracle deck. If you like this deck you can get it for yourself. Just click on the picture below.

What do the Fae want me to share?

Today’s card is number 16 - The Bright Mother
Creativity. Nurturing. Productivity. Intimacy. Sheltering.

She is the Bright Mother of us all and knows that life - all life - is a miracle. The Bright Mother is constantly amazed at its perfection-in-imperfection. She rejoices in its being, sorrows for its growing pains, and exults in its successes. This great lady is both Earthmother and the full, bright Moon, pregnant with the future of all growing things. She feeds us and provides us with air, water, and shelter in an amazing, complex world. She sees to it that we are challenged enough to grow but not so much as to be overwhelmed. If we want more challenges than she provides, we have to give them to ourselves.
The Bright Mother is the guardian of family life, and she creates and holds a nurturing environment for us all. She is the garden where vegetables, fruits, and herbs grow. Thus, she sees and holds the mysteries in ordinary processes of daily life - the bees making honey, the cream turning to butter, the birth of the baby and its growth, the blossom turning to fruit, and the wheet ripening. This lady has loving patience for natural processes, however slow.

Her commitment to us is for life - her eternal life, not our ephemeral in-the-flesh lives. She is present in all of our deep and committed relationship, facilitating nurturing, loving, creativity, and giving. She fosters within us the kind of security that gives us the inner stability we need to explore and adventure out in the world and within our own psyches. She reminds us that there are times when we must put others first because their need is so great, but that in doing so, we must not lose sight of our own needs and nurturing.

One on-line group member sees her keeping an eye on things, making sure that we all do what we need to do. To another she says, “You know me by the joy in your heart and the help in your head. You can have it all - all you have to do is ask.” For a third the key word about her is “able - able to carry, care, nurture and enjoy.”

One last thing. People tend to project their own experiences with mother and mothering on her. Sometimes this helps us to see her with more clarity, but often it creates muddle. Not all mothers are good and wise. The Bright Mother is.

Each time we perform a compassionate act of nurturing, we become more like the Bright Mother, learning unconditional giving.

When the Bright Mother is present in a reading, she speaks of a time of fertility, creativity, and nurturing of ourselves or of others. She might indicate marriage or the birth of a child or a deepening of any kind of a relationship. She also speaks of giving one’s all to life, not holding back. She is like a cornucopia, pouring forth abundance. This may be a time to put the needs of others first, taking care of yourself later. Patience may be needed for the process being discussed.

Consider what you have. Acknowledge the people and things in your life - good, bad, and indifferent. This consideration is not to judge, approve, or reject, but merely to recognize what is present in your life. These are your present fulfillments, the things you have created for yourself, drawing upon the power of Unity and the Singers (or not, as the case may be). Once you have looked clearly at what is present in your life, you may want to ask yourself what you want to change.

I think with everything that is happening we all need a little mothering. Not only for ourselves but for those around us. I think this is a time to look where we might be able to give unconditionally. Watching over those whom we love. Maybe it’s also because I am a mother myself, but seeing first hand how people are becoming scared I just want to comfort others around me.

For myself I am going to try and give more of myself. Help those that I can as much as possible. To also taking care of my friends and family as well.

Do you feel that this card resonates with you? Are you more in need of help and compassion? I’d love to hear from you.

I hope that this reading has been helpful to you all. Please let me know if it has impacted you in any way. I’d love to hear from you. While doing this reading I am was listening to Spotify playlist Faeries: The Seelie Court. You can find me on Spotify under amrauthor. I hope you enjoy the music.

May your stars shine brightly upon you.