8 The Nature of the Best Woman
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1- Close the Aurat
The best woman closed her nakedness. A woman's veil is all over her body except her face and palms, in the strongest opinion amongst the scholars.
Allah Ta'ala said,
يا أيها النبي قل لأزواجك وبناتك ونساء المؤمنين يدنين عليهن من جلابيبهن ذلك أدنى الله غفورا رحيما
"O Prophet, say to your wives, daughters and wives of the believers:" Let them bring their veil to their whole body ". That is so that they are easier to recognize, therefore they are not disturbed. And Allah is the Forgiving, the Most Merciful. (Surah Al Ahzab: 59).
The hijab is not a covering, but the hijab is the cloth worn by women after wearing khimar. While khimar is head covering.
Allah Ta'ala also said,
وقل للمؤمنات يغضضن من أبصارهن ويحفظن فروجهن ولا يبدين زينتهن إلا ما ظهر منها
"Say to the believing woman:" Let them withhold their sight, and their cock, and do not show their jewels, except those seen thereof "(Surat an Nuur: 31).
2- dress with qualified clothing syar'i women into craving should meet the criteria of dress following we sarikan from a variety of proposition qur'an and the US Sunnah. First requirement: cover the entire body (including feet) except the face and Palms. Terms of the second: not wear clothes for decorated with self. God ta'ala said, وقرن في بيوتكن ولا تبرجن تبرج الجاهلية الأولى "and let you stay in your House and do not air-tabarruj such as those jahiliyyah first." (Surat. Inter alia ahzab: 33). Abu 'ubaidah said, "tabarruj is manifest beauty him." Az zujaj said, "tabarruj is manifest perhiasaan and every things to encourage the lust (temptation) for men." Terms of the third: loose, not a tight and thin so not describe the form of curves. Terms of the fourth: not unscented or perfume. From Abu Moses Inter alia asy'ary bahwanya he said, the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi WhatsApp sallam said, أيما امرأة استعطرت فمرت على قوم ليجدوا من ريحها فهي زانية "woman wearing fragrances ago via a group of men that they smell fragrant he made the women are a prostitute." (HR. An nasa'i, Abu David, tirmidhi and Ahmad. Shaikh Inter alia albani in shohihul Jami 'no. 323 say that this Hadith shohih) terms of the fifth: not resemble the men's clothing or clothing non-Muslims. Of IBN Abbas Radi' anhuberkata, لعن النبى - صلى الله عليه وسلم - المخنثين من الرجال, والمترجلات من النساء "the Messenger of Allah curse men resembling the women's and women resembling men." (HR. Bukhari no. 6834) the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi WhatsApp sallam also said, من تشبه بقوم فهو منهم "whoever resembles a people, then he including a part of their". (HR. Ahmad and Abu David. Shaykh Islam in iqtidho' said that Sanad this Hadith jayid / good) this is among the few terms of women's clothing that must be met. This is the woman who deserve be used as the criteria.
3- at home living at home in between diteladankan by women salaf that shalihah is at home located at home and serious avoid boys and not out unless there is a need urgent. It is with the aim to save the society of temptation woman who is the temptation largest for men. God ta'ala said, وقرن في بيوتكن ولا تبرجن تبرج الجاهلية الأولى "and stay you in the houses of you and should not you dress up as grooming Ala ignorance previous" (Surat Inter alia ahzab: 33). IBN kathir as explained above verse said, "let you live in the houses of you and let you go out except because there is a need". Mentioned that there are people who asked saudah -istri rasulullah-, "why do you not Haj and berumrah as conducted by sister-saudarimu (ie the wife of the Prophet the other, pent)?" Answer he, "I have ever Haj and berumrah, while God ordered me to stay in the home". Narrators said, "for the sake of God, he has never been out of the door his home except when his body was issued to buried". Really hope God Rida him. Ibnul 'Arabi tells the story, "I have never entered more than a thousand Township but I did not meet women more distinguished and awake exceed the women in the area napolis, Palestine, where Abraham thrown into the fire. During I stayed there I never saw women on the road time during the day except on Friday. On the day of the women go to the mosque to participate in prayer Friday to mosque is full of women. So prayer Friday ended they soon home each of them and I don't see a single women to Friday next". From Abdullah, Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi WhatsApp sallam said, إن المرأة عورة, وإنها إذا خرجت من بيتها استشرفها الشيطان فتقول: ما رآني أحد إلا أعجبته, وأقرب ما تكون إلى الله إذا كانت في قعر بيتها "" the real women genitals. If he out the Devil greet him. State of women who closest to the face of God is when he was in his home ". (HR IBN khuzaimah no. 1685. Shaikh Inter alia albani said that Sanad this Hadith shahih) Shaykh Islam IBN taimiyah rahimahullah said," no halal for a wife out of the House except with the permission of her husband. "He also said," when the wife out husband without permission means he has done nusyuz (defiance), adulterous Allah ta'ala and his Messenger, and deserve punishment. "(Majmu 'Inter alia-fatawa, 32: 281)
4- have bashfulness Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi WhatsApp sallam said, الحياء لا يأتى إلا بخير" shame it is not bring except for the good. "(HR. Bukhari no. 6117 and Muslim no. 37, from the 'Imron bin hushain.) This criterion also should there is at each woman. For example is when the mix with men. Good woman should have bashfulness very. Try note a great example of women in age Moses' alaihis regards. God ta'ala said, ولما ورد ماء مدين وجد عليه أمة من الناس يسقون ووجد من دونهم امرأتين تذودان قال ما خطبكما قالتا لا نسقي حتى يصدر الرعاء وأبونا شيخ كبير (23) فسقى لهما ثم تولى إلى الظل فقال رب إني لما أنزلت إلي من خير فقير (24)" and when he got water sources country mad-Yan he encountered there a group of people who are water (animals), and he men- encountered in the back of the people, the two women who were inhibited (animals). Moses said: "do you mean (to do so)?" Both women replied: "we were unable to water (our cattle), before pengembala-pengembala it repatriate (animals), was the father we are parents who have aged". Then Moses giving to drink livestock it to (help) both. "(Surat. Qasas: 23-24). Look at how the good second nature of this woman, they embarrassed jostling with men to water livestock. But imagine with women in age now! Not enough to there fineness morality both the woman. Look at how the nature of their when it comes to call Moses' alaihis Salaam; God continue his word, فجاءته إحداهما تمشي على استحياء قالت إن أبي يدعوك ليجزيك أجر ما سقيت لنا" then come to Moses one from both the woman walking full shame, he said,' real my father called you that it provides a reply to (good) you give drink (livestock) US. '"(Surat. Inter alia qasas: 25) verse this Noble, explain how should women berakhlaq and be ashamed. God menyifati girl women Noble this way the course of full of shame and honored. Amirul mukminin Umar bin khoththob rodiyallohu' anhu said," the girl meet Moses' alaihis Salaam with clothes sealed, cover his face. "Sanad this history shahih.
5- obey and pleasing husband wife devout husband, happy seen and not rebel that makes husband hate, that's the best-good woman. From Abu hurairah Radi 'anhu, he said, قيل لرسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم أي النساء خير قال التي تسره إذا نظر وتطيعه إذا أمر ولا تخالفه في نفسها ومالها بما يكره been asked to the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi WhatsApp sallam," who is the one woman who is best? "Said he," that is the most fun if seen her husband, to comply with husband if ruled, and not menyelisihi husband on the away and his property making husband hate "(HR. An-nasai no. 3231 and Ahmad 2: 251. Shaikh Inter alia albani say that this Hadith Hasan shahih) similarly, the woman in heaven or hell seen from his attitude towards her husband, if he obey or ungodly. Inter alia hushoin bin mihshan to tell that his aunt ever come to place the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi WhatsApp sallamkarena single purposes. Seselesainya from this purpose, the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi WhatsApp sallam asked to him, أذات زوج أنت? قالت: نعم. قال: كيف أنت له? قالت: ما آلوه إلا ما عجزت عنه. قال: فانظري أين أنت منه, فإنما هو جنتك ونارك" do you already married? "Aunt Inter alia-hushain replied," it. "" What (attitude) you for your husband? "Asked the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi WhatsApp sallam again. He replied," I never reduce their rights except in the case that I wasn't able to. "The Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi WhatsApp sallam said," look where your whereabouts in pergaulanmu with your husband, because your husband is heaven and nerakamu. "(HR. Ahmad 4: 341 and selainnya. This Hadith shahih as said Shaikh Inter alia albani in shahih at targhib WhatsApp at tarhib no. 1933)
6- keep honor, children and treasure husband God ta'ala said, فالصالحات قانتات حافظات للغيب بما حفظ الله" therefore the woman who Saleh, is that obey God again keep yourself when her husband no "(Surat. An NISA ': 34). ATH thobari said in the book of commentary (6: 692)," the woman keep himself when no her husband, also he keep the pubic and treasure husband. In addition, he shall keep the rights of God and the right in addition to that. "
7- grateful by administering husband a wife should be good at-clever thank her husband to all who has given her husband to him. If not, the wife will deal with the threat of hell God ta'ala. Seselesainya of prayer kusuf (prayer Eclipse), the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi WhatsApp sallam said tell heaven and hell shown to him when prayer, ورأيت النار فلم أر كاليوم منظرا قط ورأيت أكثر أهلها النساء. قالوا: لم يا رسول الله? قال: بكفرهن. قيل: يكفرن بالله? قال: يكفرن العشير ويكفرن الإحسان, لو أحسنت إلى إحداهن الدهر, ثم رأت منك شيئا قالت: ما رأيت منك خيرا قط" and I saw the hell. I have never been at all to see the view as today. And I see it turns out the majority of inhabitants are women. "They asked," why women into the majority of occupants hell, Yes the Messenger of Allah? "He replied," caused infidelity them. "There were asked to him," do women it kufr to God? "He replied," (not, but rather) they kufr to husband and mengkufuri goodness (husband). If you do good to one of the wife of you at a time, and then one day he saw from you something (that is not acceptable in his heart) undoubtedly he would say, 'I am at all have never seen the kindness of you'. "(HR. Bukhari no. 5197 and Muslim no. 907). Look at how infidelity woman just seeing lack husband once, whereas a lot of good other given. Rain year as if will be removed by the dry a day.
8- dress up and decorated with self-only specials for husband most wife is currently in the presence of husband stylish as soldiers, smelling charcoal (aka: kitchen) and rarely want decorated with self. But when it out, it out like a Angel. This really upside down. Should in the home, he was trying fun husband. So called as well-good woman. From Abu hurairah Radi 'anhu, he said, قيل لرسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم أي النساء خير قال التي تسره إذا نظر وتطيعه إذا أمر ولا تخالفه في نفسها ومالها بما يكره been asked to the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi WhatsApp sallam," who is the one woman who is best? "Said he," that is the most fun if seen her husband, to comply with husband if ruled, and not menyelisihi husband on the away and his property making husband hate "(HR. An-nasai no. 3231 and Ahmad 2: 251. Shaikh Inter alia albani say that this Hadith Hasan shahih)
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