Do not Lower Your Stand, Just Because You're Tired of Waiting.
Dear Steemians.
Everyone must have waited, whether it's waiting for the queue, waiting for transport, waiting for adzan maghrib to break fast, and many others. The child just graduated from school, waiting for the day to go to college or wait for a job. Who is married, waiting for his datapya baby. Life is there because there is time in it. Life is like a series of waiting in life. A row of waiting lists that adorn every day. Inevitably, like it or not, we still have to wrestle with the waiting thing. Waiting for cooked rice, waiting for dry clothes, waiting for the coffee to warm up and so on.
Not a matter of waiting for him to pay attention. Because waiting is a fact of life, waiting is something definite and it must be lived. However, what should be underlined is our behavior while waiting, whether accompanied by hesitation and grumble, or stay patient and live it with full responsibility. Sometimes the wait is tiring, a lot of energy wasted our citizens are too focused with waiting. Sometimes I also feel like that when I have to download a Korean drama film with speed Just 50-100 kb / s. Also when I have to wait for queue boker in the toilet company that do not want out-out, Toiletnya also Only 4 rooms, while the queue out already 6 people with me.
Then the question should be changed, not how long you wait, but what can you do when you wait ?. We must be sure that there is always wisdom in every lag time we wait, either patience, testing the faith, or just giving space to carve charity. That means gini, when we queue in an agency, waiting for our queue number out. What do you do when the wait is over ?. Open social media, upload photos, download songs or with tengok-tengok and lyrics of beautiful women who are also sitting waiting for a queue or see the beauty of customer service in the agency. Or by decorating the lips with God's pronunciation, or writing a good article to share.
All of those choices that we decide in the waiting pause are underway. Whether we choose mainin gadget, play eye, write a useful or dzikir patiently. What is clear is the life we live in. Either it is beneficial to others, useful to ourselves or just the futility we get. It depends on each other's self. Do not we often feel the many surprises from Ar-Rahman, at the waiting period? Shock lost Mobile, surprise get extra money, surprise experience about a thing. From all that, can not we take the wisdom from the surprise scenario of Allah Subhanahu wata'ala.
So be thankful in every minute waiting time. And Be patient, may Allah always keep ourselves from negligence. Hopefully only a series of good practices that adorn our waiting list in everyday life. Self-Esteem is Improving oneself with kindness during the waiting period, Tired of waiting, making you underestimate the standard that you set first in the vision of looking for soul mate. Over time waiting, make you resigned and impatient with a mate like what you want.
