Sources of Life Problems and Its Solutions Are Within Yourself

ijoel (61)in #esteem • 6 years ago

Who doesn't have a problem in this life?

Of course, there is no human of us who has no problem. Everyone has a problem. It's just that their attitude is distinguishing, wise people will face problems full of confidence, but for people who don't know how to solve problems, they will only complain all day long.

Everyone wants to be successful in his life, but unfortunately, there are still many people of us whose success is hampered by various problems.

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We must admit that life is full of dynamic problems, we cannot reject and avoid the coming of a problem, but we can prevent or overcome it.

Actually, There are many ways to overcome life problems that we can do to deal with life's problems. It's just that the problem is whether we want to solve it or are we just lazy and trying to run away from the problem? If we run away from the problem, when will we reach the point of success?

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That problem should not be put in our heads so that it becomes a big burden. However, put the problem on our feet. So that the problem does not burden our mind that can make us dizzy, do not know where to go and do not know how to solve it. Maybe one day we have almost reached the point of success, but unfortunately, there are obstacles that make us not reach the success point.

What is our attitude in dealing with problems?

1) The first thing we need to understand, why can the problem come?

Many people are looking for solutions to the problems they face without finding out what causes the problem first. Finding a solution without finding out the cause of the problem is a ridiculous thing. It's the same as someone who buys 1 dozen floor mops to clean out the rainwater from a leaky house tile without ever patching a tile on the roof of the house. It's useless, because the problem will always come without stopping. So, therefore, we should not do ridiculous things when we look for solutions to our problems.

Use your mind power and instinct to find the cause of the problems that occur with you. Because when you have found and understood the cause of the problem, the path and the solution to the problem will also be easy to find.

2) Know that all problems will start from our own brain and heart

Maybe all this time we have never been accustomed to regulating our brains and hearts. Actually, there is a work pattern that will be created in our thoughts and feelings. That's where the beginnings of all the events we experienced during our life in this world. Therein the path to success is made, there are also obstacles to success made, there are also solutions to all our problems. Many of us who unconsciously have a wrong pattern of work on their brain and heart. We unconsciously make our own obstacles. In fact, the obstacle lies in our own thoughts and feelings.

Because of errors in the work pattern of the brain and heart so that we often encounter there are many people who try to overcome the problems of life, there are those who are tired of living without success, there are even people who are always living in poverty because their hearts and brains are not regulated by the correct working pattern.

Admittedly or not that the fact is in this life there are many people who feel the following things:

Not excited and lacking passion in living life.
Feeling his life is far from ideal and the conditions dreamed of.
Everything feels empty and meaningless to him, what is done is just a routine.
Confused with the purpose of his life and there seems to be nothing interesting to do in his life.
Keep deep anger, hurt and resentment against someone or a particular event.
Not understanding the people around him, or vice versa, feeling the people around him did not understand him.
Having a traumatic or phobia which inhibiting
Not confident in certain things, getting along, talking in public, approaching the opposite sex, and so forth.
Feelings of guilt or feel blamed.
Worry and worry about what will happen tomorrow or in the future.
Always feel experiencing unwanted things and feels like he always fails
Difficult to control emotions and manage anger.
Difficult to make decisions or always doubt in making decisions.

These things are a problem, even can be said as the source of the next problem will come. Do not complicate and complicate matters, our task is to try as much as possible to find out the causes and sources of the problems within us. If we have found the cause and source of the problem, our path to success will be easier. Overcoming life's problems is no longer a difficult thing, it will be easy. Even later, one day, we will feel peace in heart, peace and happiness in this life.

The point is if our hearts are clean because we are accustomed to the right work pattern of the brain and heart, then whatever problems will be easy to solve, even we feel don't have problems.